10 Essential Tips for Moving with Kids

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Moving with little ones can feel like a chaotic storm, right? If you’re juggling the whirlwind of packing, sorting, and keeping your kids entertained—while their favorite toys are packed away somewhere—kudos to you! Seriously, you deserve a spa day in Cabo, with a personal masseuse to help ease the tension from your back. And if you’re pregnant during all of this, I crown you the queen of the day—because you deserve it!

If your move includes changing schools and neighborhoods, I’m genuinely in awe of you. There’s not much I can say to lessen that stress, but I hope you get that vacation and all the royal treatment you deserve. For those of you still facing the challenge of moving, here are some tried-and-true tips from someone who has navigated this journey multiple times. Since my first child came into the world nearly 12 years ago, we’ve moved around quite a bit, including cross-country relocations and local hops. So, I’ve got a few helpful nuggets of wisdom to share:

1. Secure Childcare: It doesn’t matter who you ask—your sister who’s clueless about kids, your mother-in-law, or your best friend from college—just get someone to watch the kids. You’ll need support before, during, and after the move. It’s crucial to have help while you’re sorting through the chaos. Factor in the cost of hiring help into your budget if needed.
2. Set Up Utilities Early: Don’t forget to arrange your cable, internet, and other essential utilities before the move. Kids thrive on routine, and having their favorite shows available can make the transition smoother. Schedule these services ahead of time to avoid delays.
3. Declutter Ruthlessly: Use this move as a chance to get rid of unnecessary stuff. If it’s junk, toss it. If it’s still usable but unwanted, donate it. The less you have to move, the easier it will be on you in your new place.
4. Plan for Your Pets: Moving with pets can be tough. Make sure to research safe travel options for them. Companies like petrelocation.com can help ensure your furry friends are well taken care of during the move.
5. Visit the New School: Before your kids’ first day, check out their new school without your little ones. Familiarize yourself with the layout, meet the principal, and learn about any special programs. This way, you can ease your kids’ anxiety when it’s time for them to start.
6. Accept Help from Neighbors: When your new neighbors offer assistance, take it! It’s amazing how kindness can shine through during stressful times. Let them entertain your kids while you manage the move.
7. Unpack Quickly: Don’t drag out the unpacking process. Get everything set up as soon as possible—this will help your family feel settled. Prioritize essentials like beds, the kitchen, and the living room.
8. Keep Lists on Your Phone: List local services and contacts in your phone as you meet people. This will help you keep track of important information, from where to get a haircut for your kids to finding a reliable plumber.
9. Give Yourself Time: Understand that it’s normal to feel out of sorts in a new place. Adjusting can take about a year. Encourage your kids to make new friends and remind them (and yourself) that it will get better with time.
10. Throw a Housewarming Party: Celebrate your move! Organizing a casual get-together can help you connect with your new neighbors and make you feel at home. Grab some snacks and drinks, turn on some music, and let loose a little!

Moving is a challenge, but with these tips, you can navigate the storm with a bit more ease.