Hey There, Fellow Parents of Picky Eaters!

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Take a deep breath and relax. I get it—when other parents share their tales of picky eating, it’s hard not to chuckle a little. Trust me, you haven’t seen picky until you’ve met my son, Max.

I still remember that wedding when he was just two years old. I thought, “No problem! He’ll find something to eat.” Spoiler alert: I was wrong. The breadsticks? Too many sesame seeds. The pizza? Too saucy and cut into the wrong shape. And don’t even get me started on the strawberries—they just weren’t like the ones we had at home. What does that even mean?!

In a twist of fate, the bride, bless her heart, enlisted the caterers to whip up something for Max. “How about macaroni and cheese?” the chef suggested, clearly excited. Newsflash: my kid is the lone kid on earth who doesn’t like mac and cheese. But hey, he’s not alone in his pickiness. There are kids out there who will only eat three things! Max has a slightly larger repertoire—about 14 foods, including broccoli (if I cook it just right).

The Truth About Picky Eating

The truth is, almost every kid has their quirks when it comes to food. It’s totally normal! Sure, it can be a pain to whip up multiple meals or to ensure everything is just so, but maybe we can ease up a bit and accept that this is part of childhood. Feeding them can be a hassle for a few more years, and that’s okay.

I’m not here to give you advice; you know your child better than anyone. You’ll find the right balance between their needs and your own. But here are a few things I’ve learned along the way that might help you, too:

1. Kids have tiny bellies, about the size of their little fists. It’s perfectly normal for them to eat in small amounts. Once I stopped stressing over set mealtimes and let my kids graze, life got a whole lot easier—less crying in the kitchen for me!
2. Picky eating can stick around for a decade or more. My 8-year-old Max is still a bit choosy, but he’s started to branch out. He’ll even eat pizza now, albeit after picking off the “green things” like oregano. Progress!
3. Kids have a lot more taste buds than adults—up to 10,000! That means flavors hit them way harder, which explains why they might shy away from bitter vegetables or spicy foods. It can be sensory overload, so give them a break!
4. Most picky eaters are perfectly healthy and manage to get the nutrition they need, even if they only munch on veggies occasionally or take a Flintstone vitamin.

I see plenty of articles suggesting ways to “fix” picky eating—like eliminating snacks or enforcing strict meal times—but you know what? When I stopped trying to change it and accepted it as just another phase of parenting, mealtimes became a lot more pleasant for everyone involved. Happy kids lead to a happy mom, and that’s a win in my book!

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In Summary

Remember that picky eating is a common experience for many families. By accepting it as part of the parenting journey, we can make mealtimes easier and more enjoyable. So take a breath, and know you’re not alone in this!