How I Know I’ll Be a Great Grandma

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Hey friends! So, it’s totally possible that in the next decade, I might find myself stepping into the role of grandma. My oldest, if all goes well, could be graduating from college soon and maybe even considering settling down. And we all know what that usually leads to—cute little grandbabies!

Honestly, my youngest could technically become a dad right now, which is a bit mind-blowing. I could be a proud (and probably surprised) grandma in just nine months. (Let’s all take a moment to hope that he sticks to his own pants for the next ten years!) The idea of becoming a grandma is a little intimidating for me, mostly because I haven’t had a toddler around in ages. When I hear kids crying in stores, I can’t help but feel more annoyed than motherly. I often think, “Been there, done that. Good luck to you!” As my kids grow more independent, I find myself questioning if I even have the energy for a new baby, let alone my future grandchild. Could it actually be different when they’re not mine? Will I just get to enjoy the fun parts?

Not too long ago, I took care of my friend Amy’s 18-month-old daughter for a few days. I was nervous about the long hours ahead—what would we do all day? My last experience with a child at home was filled with countdowns to nap time. But this time? It was a blast! Here’s why I’m convinced I’ll be an amazing grandma:

1. I let the dishes pile up. Suddenly, I didn’t care about housework when that little girl flashed her adorable smile at me. I felt liberated from the endless chores. I even found myself wishing I could revisit those messy, chaotic days with my own boys—just to embrace the joy without worrying about the mess.
2. I became a “yes” grandma. Okay, maybe not to everything, but definitely more than I did when my kids were younger. Yes, you can bang on pots and pans! Yes, ice cream before lunch is totally fine! Yes, let’s buy that doll and fairy wings! I’ve learned to appreciate the big picture, and it’s all about letting the small stuff slide.
3. I took a nap when she napped. I didn’t rush around with an endless to-do list. Instead, I lay down and enjoyed a moment of peace. You know what? The world kept spinning. All those tasks would still be there when I woke up, but I felt recharged instead of overwhelmed.
4. The days flew by. I was surprised at how relaxed I felt. We sang, laughed, and even took selfies together. It was so much fun just being in the moment. I think I enjoyed it more because I was viewing it through a new lens, recognizing how quickly childhood goes by. Maybe it’s that I got to enjoy the best parts without the full responsibility.

Now, I’m not quite ready for grandma life yet, but I know I will be. When it was time for Amy to pick up her daughter, I was tired but fulfilled. I felt like I contributed something meaningful to both my niece and her mom. Years of parenting my boys have prepared me for this next chapter. Interestingly, there are hardly any grandparenting books out there because we instinctively know how to do it right when the time comes.

So, here’s to future adventures with my grandkids!

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In summary, the journey to becoming a grandma excites me, and I feel more prepared than ever. I can’t wait to embrace this new role, knowing that I’ll be ready to enjoy all the fun without the stress!