10 Revelations Only a Mom of a Tween Girl Will Get

Ah, the good old days of changing diapers and watching cartoons seem like a distant memory now. My daughter is officially a tween, and while it comes with its share of bittersweet moments, I’m definitely not missing the exhaustion of those early years. Instead, I’m navigating the whirlwind of tweendom with her—here are a few things that only a mom in my shoes will truly understand.

1. Earbuds Are a Must-Have Accessory.

“WHAT?” she responds, lost in her own world with her earbuds in. It’s the third time I’ve hollered her name, and despite being just a few feet away, it’s like I’m trying to communicate with an alien. Earbuds are the first thing she grabs after school, like they’re the hottest trend in fashion.

2. The Minecraft Obsession.

Remember when she was all about playing Minecraft? Well, those days are mostly over. Now, it’s all about binge-watching YouTube videos of other people playing the game. Channels like “CraftyKid” and “EpicGamer” have taken over our house. Thank goodness for those earbuds, even if it means I have to yell her name constantly to get her attention.

3. Besties Today, Frenemies Tomorrow.

One minute she’s declaring her best friend is Lily, and the next, she’s convinced Lily is plotting against her. “What’s going on?” I ask. “Nothing! She just hates me!” And then a week later, they’re back to being inseparable. I’ve learned to just nod and wait it out—this phase seems to pass as quickly as it arrives.

4. The Shaving Dilemma.

When I was her age, shaving legs felt like a middle school rite of passage. My daughter, however, asked to start at just 9. I tried to brush it off, but after a comment from a boy at school, she was determined. So, I decided to embrace it—after all, it’s her body, her choice, right?

5. Movie Nights Are a Double-Edged Sword.

Sharing movie interests is awesome… and exhausting. Sure, we both want to see the latest teen flick, but do I really want to relive the angst of adolescence?

6. Hugs Are Still a Thing.

While she’s definitely not a little girl anymore, she hasn’t completely entered the “don’t touch me” phase yet. I cherish those random hugs and cuddles on the couch, knowing they might not last much longer.

7. Opinionated and Witty.

Gone are the days of simple yes or no answers. My tween has opinions, and she’s not afraid to argue her case. It’s mentally exhausting, but I can’t help but admire her intelligence… even if it makes me question my own decisions.

8. A Love for Babies.

Tween girls have an undeniable soft spot for little ones. Whenever we visit friends with toddlers, my daughter instantly becomes the babysitter, and I can practically hear the sighs of relief from the parents.

9. Sleep Patterns Change.

After years of early morning wake-ups, our household now enjoys the luxury of sleep. My tween hits the hay around 9:30 and sleeps in until nearly 9 a.m. on weekends. I finally get some peace and quiet with my coffee in hand!

10. Nostalgia Hits Hard.

Those late ’80s trends I swore I’d never see again are back! From shoulder pads to reruns of old sitcoms, I’m constantly reminded of my own awkward adolescence. “Mom, did you see what Jessie did on Full House?” Oh yes, I did.

Even though my tween girl can be a handful and has perfected the art of eye-rolling, I see her kind heart and strong spirit every day. Her confidence inspires me, and I hope she never loses that spark.

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Summary:

Navigating the world of tweens brings a mix of nostalgia and challenges. From earbuds as trendy accessories to the ups and downs of friendship, a mom of a tween girl experiences a unique journey. Embracing their growth while cherishing the moments is key in this phase of parenting.