9 Ways I Feel More Alive Than I Did Back Then

Hey there! You know, as we go through life, it’s pretty wild how our perspectives shift and we start to feel more like ourselves. Here are nine things I’ve embraced that make me feel alive—way more than I did back in the day.

1. Shoes Don’t Have to Match

There was a time when I was totally into fashion. My outfits were always on point—everything coordinated perfectly. But honestly, who cares now? As long as I’m comfortable, my shoes can be mismatched, and I’m totally cool with rocking Crocs (okay, maybe that’s a stretch). White after Labor Day? Bring it on! I still like to look good, but I’m more about being a “fashionique” now. The fashionista? She’s gone.

2. The Joneses Aren’t All That

I used to envy the Joneses and their perfect lives—massive homes, fancy cars, you name it. But now? I couldn’t care less! I’ve realized that true happiness lies in having a cozy home, healthy kids, and a job that keeps food on the table. That’s the real deal right there.

3. Dance Like Everyone Is Watching

Growing up, I took dance classes and dreamed of performing on stage. Somewhere along the line, I became shy about dancing in public, convinced I looked silly. But you know what? I’ve thrown that worry out the window! Now, I dance like everyone’s watching because—spoiler alert—they probably are—and it feels amazing!

4. Bad Hair Days = Hat Days

In my 20s, the thought of wearing a hat made me cringe. I was all about my perfect hair. Fast forward to now, and let’s just say my hair doesn’t always cooperate. Enter the baseball cap! It’s stylish and saves me from the hassle of bad hair days. Now, I embrace my hats with open arms.

5. Toxic People? Bye-Bye

You know those negative folks that drain your energy? Yeah, I used to tolerate them, thinking they might change. But I’ve learned that I can’t fix anyone; they have to want to change. So, I’ve cut those toxic people out of my life and, oh boy, what a relief!

6. Cake is Life

I used to be a gym rat, all about that fit lifestyle. I was strict with my diet and turned my nose up at sweets. But now? Cake is basically a food group in my world. I still eat relatively healthy, but I won’t say no to dessert. Life’s too short!

7. No More Guilt Trips

I was the queen of apologizing for things that weren’t my fault. It wasn’t until I recognized that some people were trying to manipulate me with guilt that I decided to stop. Now, it takes a real reason for me to feel sorry. I’ve reclaimed my power!

8. Herd Mentality? No Thanks

I remember when I used to jump on every trend. It felt fun at the time, but I wish I had thought for myself more. Now, I’m all about independence and making my own choices. I laugh at trends and embrace my unique path.

9. Embrace Aging

If you’re like me and feeling the pressure of aging, remember you don’t have to let it weigh you down. Dive back into what you love, live life fully, and you might just feel like you’re back in the ’80s again!

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In summary, life is about embracing who you are, shedding what holds you back, and finding joy in the little things.