Embracing the Transition from Summer to Fall

As summer winds down, I often find myself in a bit of a panic. The carefree days of July, filled with barbecues and beach trips, start to slip away, and soon enough, stores will be filled with back-to-school supplies and cozy sweaters. By the end of June, I can’t help but feel like summer is already fading. I know technically it has just begun, but I can’t shake the thought that the long, sunny days are running out. Before I know it, I’ll be stuck in a dark, cold winter, and staying awake past 9 p.m. will be a struggle.

What’s the Deal with Fall?

Honestly, I’ve never been a huge fan. It’s not just the shorter days that stress me out, but also the memories of returning to school. As a kid, fall meant being trapped in a classroom after a summer filled with freedom, camps, and swimming pools. Sure, I used to feel a thrill from new crayons and a brand-new outfit, but August was always just a countdown to dragging those items to school.

Once I entered the workforce, the end-of-summer blues became less intense, but they still signified the end of a more laid-back season. Goodbye to outdoor movies and sandals, and hello to wool skirts and warm drinks indoors. It felt like time to get serious again.

A Shift in Perspective

After several years in the office grind, I transitioned to teaching and regained a more flexible summer schedule. Now, if I do teach, the semesters are shorter and the workload is lighter. But with small kids and an ever-growing to-do list filled with tasks like doctor’s appointments and oil changes, long summer days can feel overwhelming. They want to stay up late and wake up at the crack of dawn, which can be exhausting.

Finding Joy in Fall

Looking back, I realize there’s a lot to love about fall. The temperatures become more pleasant, making outdoor cafes enjoyable with just a few extra layers. Caramel apples line the grocery shelves, and I find myself buying one every week to savor that unique blend of sweet and tart until they disappear again. The crunch of fallen leaves underfoot adds a satisfying touch to my strolls, and I get excited about the pumpkins, costumes, and Halloween festivities that are just around the corner.

As I’ve aged, I’ve found myself seeking refuge in the AC during the summer heat, making me appreciate the cooler days that come after Labor Day even more. Here in Colorado, fall is unpredictable; it can snow in September, and an unexpected frost can turn my beautiful dahlias into ghostly black stalks. Still, an early snow often gives way to sunny, 60-degree days that linger into November, and the golden Aspens spilling down the mountains offer some of the most breathtaking scenery for a drive.

Embracing the Present

When I find myself dreading fall, I remind myself that I’m rushing ahead instead of enjoying the present. This year, I plan to embrace it. I’ll throw on a long-sleeved shirt, sip cider outdoors, and appreciate the blooming chrysanthemums without worrying about winter just yet. That’s a whole different story.

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Summary

As summer transitions into fall, many of us feel a mix of dread and anticipation. While the shortening days can trigger memories of school and routine, there’s also a lot to enjoy about the early fall season, like cooler temperatures, delicious seasonal treats, and festive celebrations. Embracing the present and all it has to offer can help ease the anxiety that comes with the changing seasons.