Saying Farewell to Toddlerhood: A Bittersweet Goodbye

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Hey there, friend! So, my youngest just started preschool last week, and in under two months, he’ll be turning 3. Recently, he’s made some big changes—he’s now in a big-boy bed and sporting big-boy undies. All this means that my days of referring to my little guy as a toddler are rapidly coming to a close.

Now, don’t get me wrong; we’ve still got plenty of tantrums ahead (thanks, my oldest, for the warning). Just because he’s turning 3, heading off to school, and mastering the potty doesn’t mean he’s a full-blown big kid yet, despite his enthusiastic claims. Still, I can sense the end of this wonderfully chaotic phase of life approaching.

When my first child transitioned into toddlerhood, I nearly lost it. The tantrums, the demands, and the sheer intensity of that time threw me into survival mode. But here I am, five years later, feeling a deep sense of nostalgia as I prepare to say goodbye to this uniquely challenging but rewarding period. Yes, tantrums might stick around, but many of those sweet toddler traits are fleeting.

Here’s what I know I’ll miss:

The Cuteness Factor

There’s nothing like a toddler’s hug. With their soft baby fat in all the right places, a toddler hug is one of life’s purest comforts, whether it’s at the end of a long day or just because.

Unfiltered Affection

Sure, the clinginess can wear on you. And I can’t count how many times I wish he’d call someone else “Mommy” just once. Yet, toddler love is incredibly genuine. It’s a fierce affection you can almost feel in the air, and I’ve got to admit, I really enjoy that.

The Perfect Fit

I don’t always want him on my hip, but when we’re in a crowded area or need to move quickly, nothing compares to the warmth of having him close. It’s a special connection that comes from carrying him.

Adorable Mispronunciations

Just last week, he asked to “waffle” something in my ear. Honestly, I’m going to miss those little quirks.

Drenched in Love

He loves everything about me—my dress, my earrings, you name it. His “please” and “thank you” come from a place of genuine sweetness, and his “I love you” is like a warm hug for the soul.

Brutal Honesty

Toddlers generally can’t lie, so when you ask them something, you get the truth—fast. No more sleepless nights wondering what they’re up to!

Endless Wonder

Every little thing is a new adventure for him. Whether it’s seeing a train or experiencing the county fair, every moment is filled with awe. It’s refreshing to see the world through his eyes, where even the first leaf of fall is a magical event.

While these delightful toddler traits won’t disappear overnight, I know they will gradually fade. The baby fat will give way to long legs, and the intensity of his love will transform into something more sustainable. One day, he’ll remember the county fair, and I’ll be left with beautiful memories of this wonderful time, along with the inevitable tantrums, of course.

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In summary, while I’m saying goodbye to toddlerhood, I’m also cherishing the memories and the unique love that comes with this stage.