Why I Gave My Son a Tiara

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When I decided to buy my 2-year-old son a tiara, it felt just as natural as when I picked up that Batman shirt he adored at the store. Or when I got him the Sofia doll that his buddy Alex has. It’s the same motivation behind the superhero figures we’ve been collecting on eBay for weeks (don’t worry, buddy, your Shazam and Black Canary are on their way!).

I bought him the tiara because he was genuinely excited about it, and at this age, I think it’s crucial to nurture his natural curiosity. He’s at a point where he can get lost in play and imagination—where he can dive into something with eyes wide open.

I found the tiara while we were out shopping for shoes. As I chased him through the aisles, trying to get him to try on sneakers, he spotted the pink tiara shining on the shelf. He declared it the most “spawkly” and “bootiful” thing ever. I let him hold it, and finally, he sat still long enough for me to check if the sneakers fit. They did, thank goodness! After that, we headed to the register and bought both the sneakers and the tiara.

I feel lucky to live in a progressive area with family and friends who embrace the idea of a little boy in a tiara, with a collection of princesses, and who openly loves pink and purple. I am so glad he could walk around the mall after our shoe shopping adventure, proudly wearing the tiara—until it eventually landed on his grilled cheese sandwich and he decided he’d had enough.

But let me tell you, if anyone had made a negative comment about him wearing it, I would’ve been ready to unleash some serious words! (I’m not typically confrontational, but I would have made an exception.)

I’m sick of seeing kids pigeonholed into gender stereotypes from such a young age. It frustrates me that I even felt the need to be cautious when he wore that tiara or when he admired a pair of high-heeled shoes. At this moment, he’s a blank slate regarding gender, and I want his perception of beauty and wonder to come from within, not from societal expectations of what boys and girls should like.

I know as he grows up, he’ll inevitably encounter societal pressures to conform to gender norms, and I can’t predict where he’ll land on that spectrum. I’ll absolutely support him if he chooses more traditional interests, understanding the desire to fit in. Most kids eventually drift away from princesses and tiaras, but if he continues to love pink and sparkly things despite any peer pressure, I will back him completely. And if anyone dares to criticize him for it, they better watch out because my mama bear instincts will be ready to pounce!

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In summary, it’s all about supporting our kids’ interests and breaking free from outdated gender norms. Whether it’s a tiara or a superhero cape, let’s encourage them to embrace what they love!