Nearly a year after their touching story resonated with audiences across the country, the Miller family has grown again, reinforcing the belief that love knows no bounds.
For Alex and Jamie Miller, love is not only the cornerstone of their family but also the driving force behind their remarkable journey, one unexpected “yes” at a time. Since we last shared their inspiring tale, they have gained national recognition as two dads who reunited six siblings through adoption. Their journey captured hearts everywhere, leading to invitations to high-profile events and features in various media outlets. Yet, beyond the limelight, their family continues to flourish in ways they never anticipated.
A Surprise Addition
Their family took an exciting turn after a visit to a local hospital following their White House trip. The birth parents of their adopted children had welcomed a seventh child and, trusting in the love and care of Alex and Jamie, left their names and contact information with the hospital staff.
“She was born premature and faced complications, spending a month and a half in the NICU,” Alex recounted. “Every single day, Jamie and I were there — holding her, feeding her, and ensuring she felt safe and loved from the very start.”
In May 2024, their adoption was officially finalized, bringing the total number of Millers to nine. Their home now resonates with even more laughter and joy, enriched by the lives of seven children who have been profoundly impacted by the essence of family.
A Community of Love
Managing a household of nine is no small feat, but Alex and Jamie attribute their success to a robust support system, which helps them balance school schedules, extracurricular activities, and everything else that comes with parenting.
“We’re incredibly fortunate,” Alex expressed. “My parents live close by and are always ready to lend a hand. The moms from our local PFLAG chapter also contribute immensely; we often joke that our kids have 36 moms because everyone pitches in.”
This support became even more essential when Hurricane Helene struck in September 2024, causing significant flooding in their home. Yet, the very community that celebrated their family rallied around them during these difficult times.
“Our kids’ teachers, the adoption resource center, PFLAG moms, even acquaintances we barely knew stepped up to help us clean out our home and rebuild,” Alex shared. “They reminded us how much love surrounds our family.”
Navigating the World as Two Dads
While their home is overflowing with affection, Alex and Jamie are conscious that not everyone understands a family like theirs.
“If only one of us takes the kids out, people often assume the other parent is home sick,” Alex chuckled. “I once encountered a woman who outright refused to believe they were all mine; she thought I was running a daycare.”
Most of the time, they handle these misconceptions with humor, attributing them to outdated views on family structures. However, when traveling through less accepting areas, they remain vigilant.
“Life in our community is wonderful. But on the road, especially in rural regions, we’re more cautious,” Alex explained. “We’ve had to educate our older kids about safety — knowing when to ignore unkind comments, when to walk away, and when to alert us if something feels off.”
Sadly, their children have already dealt with instances of ignorance, including classmates who make comments suggesting that having two dads somehow determines their future.
“One of our kids heard another student say, ‘Your dads are gay, so you must be gay too,’ as if that’s how it works,” Alex remarked. “While it became a valuable teaching moment, you wish they didn’t have to face such ignorance at a young age.”
Staying Strong in Florida
With ongoing legislative challenges against LGBTQ+ rights, many families contemplate relocating to more accepting states. However, the Millers believe that their visibility and activism are essential to their fight.
“I grew up in rural Minnesota. Ignorance exists everywhere,” Alex stated.
“Leaving isn’t the solution for us. We choose to remain involved, stay engaged, and ensure our kids know they are safe and loved. That’s what truly matters.” Jamie contributes by being active in their local PFLAG chapter, while both dads strive to instill in their children that their family is not just valid; it’s something to be celebrated.
“Our kids’ biggest fear is that someone will tear our family apart,” Alex shared. “When they hear anti-LGBTQ rhetoric, that’s what worries them. So, we focus on what we can control, reassure them, and continue to show up.”
Finding Joy Amidst the Chaos
Despite the challenges, the Millers wouldn’t trade their life for anything. The joy of raising their seven children far surpasses any negativity they may encounter.
“There are countless moments that make us burst into laughter,” Alex said. “One of the kids will say something utterly hilarious in the car, or we’ll gather around the dinner table sharing stories from our day, reminding us of why we do this.”
Being dads is one of their greatest joys, and no amount of hate can diminish that experience.
When asked why they chose to adopt a large sibling group, their answer is straightforward: “Because they needed us, and boy, are they worth it.” In a home filled with laughter, bedtime stories, and unconditional love, one truth shines clear: love creates a family. And the Millers have an abundance to share.
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Summary
The Miller family continues to grow, fueled by love and a supportive community. Despite facing challenges, including misconceptions about their family structure and the impact of external societal pressures, they remain committed to fostering a nurturing environment for their children. Their journey highlights the importance of love, visibility, and resilience in the face of adversity.