Hey there, my love,

Life is throwing some curveballs our way, isn’t it? I guess it’s no shocker since everyone warned us about how tough the early years of marriage can be. And here we are, right in the thick of it. I’ve noticed other young couples around us are calling it quits, and honestly, it leaves me a bit stunned. How can relationships that just started be ending so soon? But then, I look at us, sitting in front of the TV, scrolling through our phones after an exhausting day, and I begin to understand. Those folks who said marriage wouldn’t be a walk in the park? They were spot on.

Facing Challenges Together

We’ve tackled a lot in just a few years—new jobs, unexpected career shifts, and even jobs we couldn’t stand. There have been moves, a heartbreaking miscarriage, sickness, and the loss of loved ones. We’ve faced financial strains and made more “grown-up” decisions than I ever thought two young people like us would need to make.

The New Level of Challenge

Adding kids into the mix? Wow, that’s been a whole new level of challenge! We find ourselves bickering over things we never would have imagined—like who gets up at the crack of dawn with our little alarm clock, who deals with the tantrums at the supermarket, and why you thought it was a good idea to give our toddler a cookie right before dinner!

Finding Time for Us

These days, we hardly find time just for us. When we do, it’s often filled with mundane activities—catching up on our favorite shows, strolling through Target for some peace, or sneaking treats in the movie theater. The laughter and conversations we used to share are often replaced with exhaustion. We sometimes feel like we hardly talk, and when we do, it’s usually to vent our frustrations at each other.

Moments of Doubt

I know we’ve both had moments of doubt in our endless squabbles, wondering if it’s supposed to be this way. We’ve questioned whether we’re the only ones struggling to keep our energetic toddler entertained on those long weekends. And let’s be real—since getting married and having kids, we’ve sacrificed a lot, including our own well-being, in favor of sleep. We might even be starting to sport those classic “mom and dad bods.” Nights out with friends have become rare, and our idea of a wild night is ordering takeout to avoid the dishes.

Embracing Our Journey

In just three short years, our marriage has transformed significantly, and to some, it might not seem all that thrilling. But here’s the thing—I expected this season. I knew it wouldn’t be easy. I’m not naive enough to think we can just breeze through the hard parts. Each chapter of our lives will bring its own set of challenges. I know our marriage will continue to evolve, with plenty of growing pains ahead.

Gratitude Amidst the Chaos

Still, despite all the bumps in the road, I genuinely love our life together. I adore our quirky, simple existence. Even when we find ourselves in silence, side by side on the couch, I love you. I appreciate you through the stress of financial hurdles and tough decisions, because we face them together. Yes, it’s tough sometimes, and I recognize there will be more challenging seasons ahead. There will be days when I can’t get enough of you and days when I need space. But through all the highs and lows, the chaos and calm, I am thankful to be living this life with you.

Let’s Embrace the Messiness

So, let’s embrace the messiness of our journey together. As we navigate this wild ride, I want you to know that my love for you and our life is unwavering.

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In Summary

Even in the toughest times, I cherish our life together. We’ll keep moving forward, embracing every season with love.