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10 Things Only a Mom of a Tween Girl Can Relate To
It feels like just yesterday I was knee-deep in diapers, binge-watching cartoons, prepping for kindergarten, and hitting up baby stores. But those days are long gone. While there’s a bittersweet feeling in seeing those moments fade away, I’m definitely not sad. I’m less exhausted, but boy, is it still exhausting! Even though we all went through the tween phase, nothing quite prepares you for navigating this wild ride with your own daughter.
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Earbuds are the New Must-Have
“HUH?” she replies, barely looking up from her iPod Touch. It’s the third (or maybe fifth) time I’ve called her name, and despite being just a few feet away, it takes several shouts and escalating volume to finally grab her attention. Earbuds are plugged in faster than a cat can pounce! -
Minecraft Mania
Remember when she was obsessed with playing Minecraft? Now, that’s mostly a memory, except when her younger brother annoys her enough to join in for a game. Instead, she’s glued to Minecraft YouTube videos like Stampy, PopularMMOs, and many more. Thank goodness for those earbuds, even if it means I have to yell to get her attention. -
Best Friends and Frenemies
One week it’s all about Susie being her best friend, and the next, Susie is suddenly her sworn enemy. “What happened?” I ask, only to hear, “Nothing! She just hates me!” And just like that, they’re besties again. I’ve learned to roll with the punches and remind myself that this too shall pass. -
Can I Shave My Legs?
I thought girls started shaving much later, but my daughter asked to shave her legs at just 9! I tried to delay the inevitable, but after a comment from a boy during basketball season, she was insistent. I remember my own first attempt at shaving—talk about a disaster! But I decided to embrace her choice; it’s her body after all. -
Movie Night Dilemmas
On the plus side, there’s a ton of movies we both want to see. But on the downside, it means endless negotiations about what to watch! Ah, the joys of motherhood. -
Hug Time!
She’s not a little girl anymore, but thankfully, she isn’t fully in the “don’t touch me” teenage phase yet. Random hugs, sweet goodnight kisses, and cozy snuggles are still part of our routine, and I’m savoring every moment. -
Wit and Opinions Galore
The stages of babyhood and toddlerhood may be physically exhausting, but I never anticipated the mental workout that comes with a tween girl who’s loaded with opinions and sass. Our debates can be draining, yet I can’t help but admire her cleverness. Turns out, she’s a mini version of me! -
Baby Love
Tween girls have an undeniable affection for babies. Whenever we’re at a gathering, I can count on her to swoop in and entertain the little ones. I know she secretly wishes we’d have another baby, but no thanks—we’re done! -
Sleep Schedule Shift
After years of early wake-ups, sleep has finally become a cherished commodity in our household. My tween still goes to bed at a reasonable hour, but she’s a champion at sleeping in! I get precious morning hours to myself with a cup of coffee while she snoozes away. -
Throwback Vibes
Those ’80s styles I remember? They’re back in fashion! From off-the-shoulder tops to reruns of classic shows, every day I find myself reliving that quirky time of my life as she excitedly shares her discoveries, and yes, I totally get what she means!
While my tween can test my patience (hello, eye-rolls!), she’s got a heart of gold. I admire her determination and confidence, and I can only hope she carries that with her as she grows up.
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Summary
Navigating the tween years with a daughter is filled with ups and downs, from earbuds and friendships to movie nights and baby love. Each moment, whether exhausting or heartwarming, creates a unique bonding experience and cherished memories.