Your cart is currently empty!
Embracing the Empty Nest
Updated: Aug. 16, 2023
As a proud mom of three energetic kids, I’ve often found myself pondering what life will look like once they’ve flown the coop. Well, that time is fast approaching, and instead of focusing on what I might miss, I’m starting to see the silver lining of an empty nest. Many of my friends have already navigated this transition, and they seem to be enjoying it. I’m shifting my mindset from dread to anticipation.
The delightful chaos of little feet running around was wonderful while it lasted, but as they’ve grown, so have their shoes—and the costs that come with them! The joyful sounds of laughter have turned into the thuds of heavy footsteps, and I can’t help but remember the days when they’d jump down the stairs. I’ve often heard that “Silence is golden” and I’m finally connecting the dots. I can’t wait for the quiet that will fill my golden years. Kids are loud, their friends are loud, and don’t even get me started on the music. Over the years, we’ve hosted trumpets, saxophones, and guitars—thankfully, they’ll be taking those instruments with them when they leave.
That impending silence will be a blessing, especially during those long, leisurely afternoon naps I dream of enjoying in retirement. Napping with kids around has been a challenge for someone like me who isn’t a deep sleeper. And the thought of sleeping in without the interruption of a slamming door or a child needing help with something is definitely a perk of being an empty nester.
For years, I’ve claimed I would miss the toys scattered everywhere once the kids were gone, but I’ve come to realize I won’t. The idea of having a tidy home that stays clean for more than a few hours sounds incredible. I won’t miss the maze of bikes and soccer balls cluttering the yard either. I’m even considering planting flowers where the Tonka trucks once roamed.
Cooking will also become a breeze. No more catering to each child’s individual likes and dislikes! I can finally add pecans to cookies, onions to meatloaf, and peas to salads without anyone complaining. Dining out will be a treat too—no more family votes on where to go. Plus, I’ll be able to hold hands with my husband across the table without hearing, “Mom, that’s so embarrassing!”
There are countless things I’m looking forward to once my kids leave home. No more shower interruptions to answer a question through the bathroom door, and no waiting up late for them to return from activities. I’ll never have to scrub sports uniforms or help with last-minute school projects again. Financially, I’m looking forward to lower bills for everything from electricity to groceries. I can finally turn those empty bedrooms into a sewing room, a home office, or a cozy guest room.
Rest assured, my children will always be welcome to visit their childhood home. Just don’t forget to call first—I might be napping in the living room, enjoying my newfound freedom.
If you’re looking for more insights on family life and transitions, check out one of our other blog posts here: Terms and Conditions. And if you want to learn more about home insemination and related resources, this link will definitely help.
In summary, the empty nest phase brings a mix of freedom, peace, and exciting new opportunities. I can hardly wait to embrace this next chapter of life.