On the morning of a freshly announced snow day, I gathered my children and turned on the news. Amid the chaos of changing diapers and cleaning up spilled snacks, I caught a glimpse of a baby with Down syndrome on the screen. Each time I see someone with Down syndrome, I hold my breath in anticipation, eager for more information. My partner and I exchanged glances, excitement building as we searched online for details. Then the moment arrived.
Lucas was named the Gerber baby of 2018, and he has Down syndrome.
This was a groundbreaking moment for the perception of disabilities. This announcement had the potential to reshape my son’s future. It marked a shift in how society defines “adorable,” and in that instant, time seemed to freeze, and we were overcome with hope.
When my son, Leo, was a baby, numerous people suggested that I consider modeling for him. My own mother brought it up every time I shared a photo on social media, her enthusiasm unwavering. I laughed, thinking she viewed him through a grandmother’s lens. I questioned whether others genuinely found him cute or were simply feeling sorry for him.
Deep down, I believed the world wasn’t ready for a child like Leo to be showcased. No, that’s not quite right. I wasn’t prepared. I feared the inevitable rejection and the potential heartbreak that might follow. I wasn’t sure I could face the unkindness of the world.
I was mistaken.
To my dear son:
Leo,
I owe you an apology. I underestimated the world’s ability to embrace you. I campaign for acceptance and inclusion, sharing all the reasons you are so lovable. Yet, when it came to your potential, I hesitated, wanting to protect us from possible hurt. I regret this deeply. I promise to support you fully and to not shy away from opportunities because of what might not be. That’s not who I am, and it’s certainly not who I want you to become. The world is evolving, kind, and ready to welcome you with open arms!
With all my love,
Mom
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In summary, the announcement of Lucas as the Gerber baby with Down syndrome has had a profound impact on my family. It has opened my eyes to the possibilities that lie ahead for my son Leo and affirmed my commitment to advocate for acceptance and inclusion in a world that is ready for more.