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Running When You Don’t Fit the Runner Mold
This past year has been a major physical transformation for my partner, Jake, and let me tell you, it hasn’t gone unnoticed! His dedication to training has truly paid off, and I couldn’t be prouder. But here’s the catch: he now embodies the runner physique. Me? Not so much. This has sparked some rather interesting (read: slightly awkward) conversations with family, friends, and even some friendly strangers (FS). They typically go like this:
FS (to Jake): You look fantastic! You must be running!
Jake: Yeah, I’ve been running a bit…
FS: That’s awesome!
Me (standing quietly, feeling invisible): Go ahead, ask him who got him back into running. Yep, that would be me!
Or another classic:
FS (to Jake): Have you participated in any races?
Jake: We’ve run a couple of half marathons…
FS: Wasn’t it pouring during the last one?
Jake: Yep, it seems to rain every time we race—a surefire way to end a drought. Sarah ran it with me.
FS (turning to me in surprise): Oh, you ran too?
Me: Absolutely! (Silently: You bet I did, every single step of those 13.1 miles, and let’s not forget about the downpour!)
The reactions are often similar when my participation in the New York City Marathon comes up—people are shocked that I’m the one training for it, not Jake.
I know it might sound like I’m feeling bitter, but honestly, I’m not. I understand why people might not picture me as a runner. If you were to see me for the first time, “runner” wouldn’t likely come to mind. And if my name is brought up in connection with a “marathon,” it’s more likely to be about binge-watching my favorite shows, not running 26.2 miles!
Surprisingly, I draw strength from the doubts others have about me. I’m not sure what that says about my character or my career path, but I see being underestimated as a secret weapon. It pushes me to work harder, strive for more, and dig deeper, all for the thrill of surprising those who doubted me.
Ultimately, it doesn’t matter what anyone thinks; what truly counts is my belief in myself. There will always be lingering doubts about whether I can achieve my goals. However, every time I overcome those doubts, each time I accomplish something that seemed out of reach, I grow stronger. This resilience is what prepares me for whatever lies ahead.
At the end of the day, even if you have friends, family, or even two million race spectators cheering for you, it all means nothing if you don’t believe in yourself. And if you ever forget that along the way, there are plenty of motivational T-shirts out there to remind you.
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Summary:
This article discusses the author’s experience with her husband’s transformation into a runner while she feels overlooked in comparison. Despite the doubts from others, she emphasizes the importance of self-belief and how overcoming personal challenges strengthens her resolve. The piece encourages readers to find their own motivation and self-worth, regardless of external perceptions.