Attention All Moms: The Buzz Around “Brexting”

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It’s time for another round of unsolicited advice. Recently, the internet has been buzzing about “brexting,” a term that describes the act of breastfeeding while using your phone. Apparently, this new trend is yet another way to supposedly jeopardize your baby’s well-being.

The Debate on Parenting Forums

The discussion has gained traction on parenting forums, with moms debating the implications of scrolling through social media or sending emails during nursing sessions. Now, some medical professionals are chiming in, warning that these distractions may interfere with essential bonding time between mother and baby.

Expert Opinions

Dr. Maya Bennett, a psychologist focusing on maternal health, shared with Southern California Public Radio (SCPR) that “distracted mothers”—a trendy label for those who dare to multitask—might miss important signals from their babies, like signs of hunger or discomfort. She explains that if babies can’t get a response from their moms during breastfeeding, they could develop insecure attachment styles over time.

The Reality of New Moms

Let’s picture a new mom in those early weeks, juggling the stress of breastfeeding. Maybe she’s seeking support from her online group during a feed or needs a quick escape on Instagram to keep her sanity. Perhaps she even plays a game or two to stay awake during those exhausting nights. Then, just when she thinks she can catch a break, the “brexting police” arrive to criticize her for not being fully attentive. Really? If someone tried to lecture me about my phone use in the hospital, I’d probably give them a piece of my mind—while also giving them a good smack with my phone!

A Call for Understanding

Here’s a wild idea: let’s stop inventing new ways to shame moms for simply being human. Sure, feeding is a bonding moment, but it also happens every few hours, and moms have lives to manage. Instead of focusing on the dangers of mobile games during nursing, maybe we should be studying the mental toll of constant judgment from society. I have a hunch that would make for some eye-opening findings. For more insights on parenting, be sure to check out this post on our other blog.

Conclusion

In summary, as moms navigate the challenges of breastfeeding and technology, it’s crucial to remember that everyone is doing their best. Let’s support one another instead of critiquing every choice we make.