20 Signs Your Child Might Be a Real Handful

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We all know that parenting can be a challenge, but not every child falls under the “difficult” label. Friends share their tales of their “little monsters,” and I’m often left waiting for the punchline. A tantrum here, a meltdown there—sure, they can be maddening. But a difficult child? Let’s talk when your little one has tried to escape airport security. Twice.

You might have a handful of a child if…

1. Potty training took months, but your little one perfected the art of revenge pee on day one. Your timeout chair could rival a hot car in D.C. for unpleasant odors. #toddlerjustice
2. The only principle of the Declaration of Independence your child recognizes is “Life.” Liberty? Nope. Happiness? Not a chance. Living under a toddler’s rule feels like housing a British soldier—at least the soldier doesn’t have Caillou on repeat.
3. When friends ask about your weekend and you respond, “It was a mess,” you’re talking about actual messes—think enemas and Miralax.
4. Every doctor in the clinic knows your child, yet no one can pinpoint what’s wrong. A mysterious cough? Check. Random skin patches? Double check. Nothing life-threatening but utterly annoying? You bet.
5. The “5 S’s” of soothing babies? They never worked for your child. Swaddling? Ha! You still want to punch something every time someone mentions it.
6. When asked when your child first slept through the night, you grin (and secretly plot revenge) while imagining your friends getting a taste of your nightly chaos.
7. Your parents suggest you stay elsewhere when visiting—after all, their spacious home is ideal for everyone… except your little one!
8. You’ve taken your child grocery shopping in a Halloween costume—when it’s not even close to Halloween.
9. Major decisions have been postponed because you’re terrified of disrupting your child’s routine. You’ve settled into a house that feels too small, but moving is just too much hassle.
10. Friends in their 20s and 30s claim your child is great birth control after a mere ten minutes with them. You can’t fathom why they’d feel that way, considering how glamorous motherhood looks from your perspective!
11. You’ve gone to work with poop in your hair—knowingly. Because who has time for baby spit-up?
12. Your “diaper run” involves rum, mint, and a muddler. Mommy’s Mojitos: the only way to survive!
13. Instead of celebrating a first birthday, you threw a “we survived it” party. After hours of Pinterest searches, you realized nothing captures the chaos like a keg.
14. You’ve been caught without backup pants while grocery shopping, despite always having at least three pairs on hand.
15. You’ve had to use your leg (or a hula hoop) to stop your child from harming another kid—hey, survival of the fittest!
16. Your child has seen a therapist before hitting the age of two. A fellow parent once said, “I didn’t believe your struggles until you mentioned the therapist.”
17. You’ve been recommended self-help books like “Raising Your Spirited Child” from multiple professionals, friends, and even strangers.
18. The police have shown up at your home because your little one pressed the alarm—more than once, and they were under two at the time!
19. You secretly rejoice when your child is listed on the school incident report as the victim instead of the aggressor. Teachers may judge, but you’re just relieved!
20. You feel a kinship with the mother of Dennis the Menace more than anyone else. Mrs. Mitchell gets you.

If these statements resonate with you, you might just be navigating the wild waters of a difficult child. Don’t worry; you’re not alone—we’re all in this chaotic journey together. So, when it comes to pouring that second glass of something stronger during nap negotiations, remember: you’re in good company!

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Summary:

This article humorously explores the signs of a particularly challenging child, highlighting the unique struggles and relatable experiences parents often face. From unusual potty training issues to police visits, it captures the essence of navigating parenting with a spirited child.