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WIT: A Parenting Approach for Everyday Life
When I was expecting my first child, I immersed myself in parenting literature, eager to equip myself with the best strategies for motherhood. Like many new moms, I wanted to feel prepared and knowledgeable, ready to tackle any challenge from sleep routines to potty training. I found a few approaches that resonated with me, and off we went, excitedly raising three kids as if we had it all figured out.
But, of course, that’s not how it played out. Kids aren’t exactly swayed by expert opinions. With our first child, everything seemed to fall into place. I could’ve penned a self-satisfied guide based on my experiences. But when our second child arrived, it quickly became clear that the techniques that worked wonders with our daughter were utterly ineffective with her sibling. My self-assuredness took a hit, and by the time our third child came along? Well, let’s just say it was a whole new ballgame.
Now, after 15 years of parenting, I’m proud to say I’ve crafted my own unique style—WIT Parenting.
What is WIT Parenting?
WIT stands for “Whatever It Takes.” This parenting approach embraces creativity, humor, and quick thinking, making it a vital toolkit for navigating the wild ride of raising kids. It’s all about finding what works for your family, no matter how unconventional it may be. Does your baby sleep better in a car seat placed in the bathroom with the fan running for white noise? Great! Does your child only eat veggies when they’re drenched in ketchup? No biggie. Have you discovered that the secret to potty training is a handful of Skittles? Bring on the fruity rewards!
WIT Parenting is your official “use what works and toss the rest” methodology. As long as it’s not harmful, nothing is off-limits. Every child is a unique individual with distinct needs, and what helps one may not suit another. Sometimes, all you can do is throw your entire arsenal at a problem and hope something sticks.
One child might respond to a simple stern look, while another may require a different approach entirely. WIT Parenting acknowledges these realities. Whatever it takes to help your child learn, grow, and thrive is fair game.
Guidelines for WIT Parenting
Of course, do keep in mind that “whatever it takes” shouldn’t lead to undesirable long-term effects. Like true wit, WIT Parenting requires a smidgen of wisdom. There are some general rules to follow—like loving your kids in ways they understand, keeping the bigger picture in mind, and setting boundaries. And please, let’s agree that picking noses and wiping them on furniture is just plain gross.
Ultimately, it boils down to this: Do whatever it takes to raise your little ones into caring, responsible adults—all while maintaining your sanity. Whether that means finding a few moments to unwind with some chocolate and a Netflix binge after bedtime, or discovering creative solutions to get them to eat their veggies, go for it. And don’t forget to share your tips with fellow parents!
So, embrace WIT Parenting, and remember that every family has their unique journey.
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Summary
WIT Parenting, or “Whatever It Takes” Parenting, champions creativity and flexibility in child-rearing. Acknowledging that each child is unique, this approach encourages parents to find solutions that work for their family, no matter how unconventional. The focus is on nurturing kids into caring adults, while maintaining sanity and humor along the way.