Here’s What You Should Know About Flying With Kids

I often hear from friends who don’t have kids that they dread flying with children on board. They talk about kids kicking seats, crying for no reason, or staring at them with those big eyes, seemingly asking for attention. I nod and listen, trying to be a good friend and avoid confrontation. They seem to expect some kind of apology from me on behalf of all parents. But here’s the truth: no one dislikes flying with kids more than the parents themselves. Regardless, flying with little ones is a reality. So, here are a few common gripes I’ve heard from non-parents and what I wish I could say to them—if I weren’t such a nice person.

“I was on a flight, and this baby cried the whole time! How hard is it to keep a baby quiet?”

Well, let me tell you, it’s not easy. Babies often can’t equalize their ear pressure, making flying super uncomfortable for them. The last time I traveled with my little one, I was given ear drops by our doctor that did absolutely nothing. And yes, my family wanted to see the baby during the holidays. So next time a baby cries on a flight, try to remember that it’s probably just as tough for the parents as it is for you.

“I always end up stuck behind a mom with a stroller at security. Seriously, do parents need all that stuff?”

Do you really need four electronic devices and a neck pillow for a four-hour flight? Probably not. But entertaining a child is like trying to keep a goldfish focused—nearly impossible! Plus, factor in snacks and diaper changes. One time at Denver airport, two of my kids got sick, and trust me, finding diapers there was a nightmare. If I hadn’t been prepared, you’d be smelling some unpleasant stuff the whole flight and judging me for it.

“I was next to a mom who breastfed her baby on the plane! Can’t she wait?”

While you were munching on snacks, I’d like to remind you that a baby can’t wait either. Every person has their needs, and feeding a baby is just as important as your chips and soda.

“There was this toddler throwing a tantrum on the plane. Parents need to teach their kids how to behave!”

Honestly, who hasn’t wanted to throw a fit while crammed in a tiny space? Airplanes are uncomfortable for everyone. But here’s the deal: adults can manage their emotions; toddlers are still learning. So why not put on some headphones, relax, and let it go?

“Why can’t parents just wait until their kids are older to travel?”

Are you suggesting an age limit on flying? Should grandparents miss seeing their grandkids? Families need to travel, and kids belong in this world—planes included.

So, instead of offering snarky comments and rolling your eyes, consider this: parents don’t love flying with kids either. But it’s a part of life. So grab your headphones, read that book, enjoy your snacks, and let’s all just deal with it together.

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In summary, flying with children is a shared experience that requires patience from everyone involved. Let’s approach it with understanding and kindness.