Hey there, future mamas! As you embark on this wild journey of motherhood, I want to share five promises that I vow to uphold while supporting you through the ups and downs of parenting.
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I won’t say “I’ve been there, done that.”
You know what? It’s really not helpful when someone tosses that out during your chaos. I still remember the day my friend Jamie told me this while I was juggling three wailing kids in a craft store. Did it help? Nope! Instead, it made me want to throw pom-poms in her direction. I promise to be more understanding and listen to your struggles without minimizing them. -
I won’t offer unsolicited advice.
You won’t catch me dropping off parenting articles or sending you a subscription to the latest parenting magazine unless you specifically ask for it. If you’re recounting a sleepless night and joking about accidentally using the sink instead of the toilet, I get that you’re tired, not looking for a sleep training manual. You’re doing your best, and I’m here to support you, not bombard you with “helpful” tips. -
I won’t one-up your stories.
When you’re venting about your child’s latest misadventure, I won’t jump in with a tale that’s somehow worse. Because honestly, that just makes you feel worse, not better. We all have our battles, and I promise to be a compassionate listener instead of turning your struggle into a competition. -
I won’t point out what your child is missing.
Whether your kid is shoeless, shirtless, or having a meltdown, I won’t be the one reminding you of it. You’re already in the thick of it, and I trust that you know your child best. However, if I see your little one digging around in their diaper, I might just step in to help—because, hey, I’ve been there! -
I won’t say to cherish every moment.
Let’s be real—some moments are just downright messy. That time your toddler mistook your shoulder for the dinner table or when your son threw a can of beans in the grocery store? Those are not going in any baby book! Parenting is hard, and I’m not going to make you feel guilty for not loving every single second.
These are my heartfelt commitments to you, dear future moms. Remember, you’re not alone on this rollercoaster ride!
Best wishes,
A fellow mom who knows it’s okay not to cherish every moment and who despises unsolicited advice.
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Summary
In this lighthearted guide, I share five promises to future moms that emphasize empathy and support rather than comparison or unsolicited advice. From avoiding the cliché “been there, done that” to respecting your parenting journey, this post aims to uplift rather than undermine.