8 Things You Should Never Do to a Mom with Young Kids

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Hey there, friend! If you know a mom juggling little ones, here are eight things you definitely want to avoid. Trust me, she’ll thank you!

  1. Show Up Unannounced
    Surprise visits might sound fun, but they can throw a mom’s whole day off. Instead, send a quick text like, “I’m on my way with coffee!” and watch her smile.
  2. Wake Up Her Napping Kids
    Getting those kiddos to sleep can be a major accomplishment. If you interrupt their nap, you risk turning her peaceful afternoon into a circus of cranky toddlers. Let her enjoy that quiet time—she earned it!
  3. Bail on Babysitting Plans
    Moms cherish the rare moments of child-free time, even if it’s just to run errands or sneak in a nap. If you promised to babysit, don’t back out unless it’s an emergency. She’s looking forward to that break!
  4. Drink All of Her Coffee
    Coffee is a mom’s lifeline! If you finish it off, it’s like leaving a fish out of water—she’ll be gasping for that caffeine fix.
  5. Question What She Does All Day
    Trust me, she’s got a packed schedule! Instead of asking, tell her she’s an amazing mom. She needs to hear that more than you know.
  6. Call Her Maternity Leave a Vacation
    Maternity leave is anything but a holiday. Between feeding, changing, and sleepless nights, it’s tough work. A simple gesture like offering to bring dinner or playing with her older kids so she can catch a nap goes a long way.
  7. Notify Her You’ll Be Home Late
    Picture this: she’s juggling dinner, a fussy baby, and a toddler who’s testing her patience, only to hear the news that you’ll be late. It’s okay for her to feel a little frustrated. A pizza delivery could be in order!
  8. Suggest Her Life is Over Because She Has Kids
    Having kids is a beautiful journey filled with love and joy. Yes, life changes, but it’s a change for the better! Remind her that she’s doing an incredible job, and perhaps surprise her with coffee to brighten her day.

In short, being a mom is a tough job, and a little kindness and understanding can make a world of difference. If you want to support her, drop by with a little something, and let her know how appreciated she is.

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