I strongly advocate for a pre-holiday toy purge. This year marks our family’s first Christmas with three kids. Our youngest was born at the start of the year, and she’s finally old enough to unwrap gifts and enjoy playing with toys. It’s adorable watching her, and the grandparents are eager to see all the kids dive into their presents. Honestly, I love giving gifts too. While we don’t go overboard for Christmas, with three children, even a few gifts per kid add up quickly.
Instead of resisting the wave of new toys that Christmas brings, I’ve been clearing out space for the incoming goodies. Sure, Christmas doesn’t have to mean an avalanche of new items, but after the challenges of 2020, we’re ready for a little cheer. This isn’t the year I’m going to explain the value of experiences over material things to my little ones, especially when we can’t go anywhere safely. Maybe next year. For now, we are preparing for a pile of new books and toys, and we need to make room.
To get inspired, I’ve read various articles by extremely organized parents. Some have embraced the KonMari method (which, honestly, wouldn’t work for me since not a single toy sparks joy except for the kids themselves). These parents are incredible with their lists and labels, but that’s just not me.
If you’re like me—a regular parent with a somewhat relaxed approach to organization—looking to declutter without diving into a fancy system, I’ve gathered a few tips. I’ve learned a thing or two over my eight years of parenting, so while I’m no expert, I’m certainly not a novice. You won’t need a label maker or a trip to the Container Store; you just need a few large boxes.
1. Communicate Beforehand
Don’t attempt a stealthy toy purge right away. Kids will notice if their toys start vanishing. For example, if your four-year-old wakes up to find their favorite Aquaman missing, they’re going to be confused and upset, even if it was a broken toy. Explain that Christmas is coming, and we need to clear some space for new items. It’s essential they know their cherished toys are safe from the purge.
2. Create a Sorting Zone
Gather all toys into one area without including their most-loved items. This doesn’t mean creating chaos; simply organize everything in one spot. Use baskets or boxes to create four zones: Keep, Storage, Throw Away, and Donate. This method reminds me of the show Clean Sweep from years ago.
3. Start with Broken Toys
Begin with the “Throw Away Zone.” Kids sometimes cling to broken toys, but unless it’s a comfort item, it’s okay to let go of unusable toys. Explain that broken toys aren’t fun or safe. This can help them ease into the idea of purging.
4. Encourage Generosity
Many children have kind hearts. If you explain that their gently used toys can bring joy to other kids, they’ll often surprise you by how many they’re willing to donate. You can also model this behavior by donating some of your own items. Just ensure that donated toys are clean, in good condition, and complete. Secondhand toys should be a positive experience for others!
5. Consider a Toy Rotation
If a toy is too dear to part with but not currently being used, put it in the “Storage Zone.” Start a toy rotation with large boxes; this way, kids can say “See you later!” to certain items. Every few months, swap out toys they haven’t seen in a while.
6. Establish a Home for Kept Items
After all this decluttering, ensure that everything in the “Keep Zone” has a designated spot. This will prevent post-Christmas clutter and make room for new gifts.
7. Sell Unused Items
If you have a valuable toy or item, consider selling it on local resale pages. The money made could go towards a family activity or treat, making the process more enticing for the kids.
8. Embrace a Little Stealth
If all else fails, you might need to apply a bit of stealth. Let them know that if they don’t help, you’ll take charge of the purge without them. It’s essential to make room for the new!
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In summary, preparing for Christmas with three kids involves strategic toy purging to create space for new gifts. By communicating with your children, sorting toys effectively, and encouraging donation, you can make the process smoother and more enjoyable for everyone.