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Today, while sifting through some old photo albums, I stumbled upon a crumpled note that made me chuckle. It was a 6-page manifesto of ‘guidelines and insights’ (my own overly detailed phrasing) that I crafted for my in-laws when they generously offered to watch our daughter for 10 days while I embarked on a dream trip to Italy with my mom.
This was eight years ago, right after our daughter turned 1, and we had just moved into a new home. There were boxes piled high everywhere, and the usual chaos of life with a toddler. Yet, my in-laws flew all the way from Arizona to Seattle to take care of her, allowing us to indulge in a delightful food and wine tour across Italy. I’m still incredibly thankful for their kindness.
In a bid to be helpful, I compiled what I believed was a thorough list of all the essential information they would need to keep my daughter happy and healthy during our absence. Now, looking back eight years (and one more kiddo) later, I can only imagine how entertaining my detailed instruction sheet must have been for two wise and loving grandparents who had already navigated parenthood with two boys of their own.
As I share this, I hope it resonates with all the moms out there—especially those preparing to draft their own ‘guidelines’ for the first time they leave their little ones. And for seasoned moms like me, it’s a reminder of that first bittersweet moment when we entrusted our precious babies into someone else’s care. Keep those notes; they’ll be a delightful reminder of how far you’ve come—and maybe a hint that it’s time to up your game for your in-laws’ holiday gifts this year.
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In summary, this amusing note serves as a reminder of the early days of parenting and the charming absurdity that often accompanies it.