As I settled into the passenger seat of our car, I furiously tapped on my phone. We were heading out for a dinner to celebrate our seven-year wedding anniversary, and amidst the chaos of caring for our lively toddler and newborn, I completely forgot to grab a card. Feeling a bit guilty, I decided to pull out my “Notes” app and jot down a few heartfelt thoughts. My husband, Jake, probably assumed I was glued to my phone as usual, but I wanted to capture these feelings to share with him over dinner. I hesitated at first, not wanting him to think this was a last-minute effort, but the emotions behind it were genuine.
Once we reached the restaurant, I pulled out my phone and read my list to him. Here are seven things I adore about Jake after seven years of marriage:
- You Always Improve Things: I realized this when I got into my car after you borrowed it for errands. It was spotless and had that lovely coconut air freshener scent you know I love. Your knack for tidiness makes me appreciate the order in our lives, and it keeps me from rearranging things just to tease you.
- Your Humor Is Timeless: Amidst our busy lives, you still have the ability to make me laugh as hard as the night we first met at that little restaurant. I remember nearly laughing so hard I could barely breathe, and your determination to keep me giggling is something I cherish.
- Our Kids Adore You: Even though our baby, Leo, is still so little, I can see his eyes light up whenever he spots you. And our daughter, Mia, absolutely idolizes you—it’s heartwarming to see the special bond you two share, especially when you make her laugh until she can’t breathe.
- Your Passionate Spirit: It’s one of the first things that drew me to you. Your energy balances out my more introverted nature. Sometimes, when you burst in after work, excited to talk about everything under the sun, I might zone out, but I love that you never stop sharing. Keep that energy coming!
- We Balance Each Other Out: The past couple of years have thrown us a mix of job changes, pregnancies, and all sorts of ups and downs. Yet, we manage to stay in sync, like a perfectly balanced see-saw—when one of us is down, the other lifts us up.
- You’re a Go-Getter: Your drive is inspiring. It’s like you have a million ideas running in the background, even when you seem to be relaxing. You know when to push yourself and when to take a break, and I appreciate that you listen when I suggest slowing down.
- Your Thoughtfulness: No matter the occasion, big or small, you always find a way to make things special without going overboard. I love how you appreciate the little notes and gestures, like this one I scribbled on my phone. It reminds me that it’s the sentiment that counts.
By the end of my little list, I could see the emotion in Jake’s eyes. It hit me that sometimes, the simplest gestures can remind us of our love. Whether it’s a fancy card or a quick note, it’s the words that matter. Maybe one day, when life isn’t all about managing diaper changes and meal times, we’ll get back to those glittery cards. But for now, it’s the heartfelt messages that truly count.
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Summary
Celebrating seven years of marriage, I reflected on the qualities I love most about my husband, Jake. His cleanliness, humor, connection with our kids, fiery passion, supportive nature, work ethic, and thoughtfulness all contribute to our strong bond. In the end, it’s the heartfelt messages between us that matter most, no matter how they’re delivered.