Dear Kids,

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Let me start by saying I have zero regrets about being a working mom. While some moms might feel differently, I’m proud of the choices I’ve made. When I head out the door each morning, I’m not sad to leave you behind, because you know you’ll be having a blast with friends or family. I want you to enjoy those moments, even if I can’t be there to witness them.

I’m thrilled that you’ve got your Nana, your Gigi, and your Pops as part of your inner circle. Not every kid gets to have such a strong bond with their grandparents, and I think that’s pretty special. Plus, because I work, you get to spend quality time with your totally capable dad. You’re learning that teamwork is essential—whether it’s in the kitchen or changing diapers!

And guess what? You’re picking up on how to balance life, too! Watching your dad and me juggle our schedules teaches you that adults can collaborate to keep things running—well, mostly running anyway. I may not have as much time to spend with you, but I hope you know that the moments we share are filled with love and attention. Quality over quantity, right?

Research suggests that, because I’m a working mom, you, my daughter, are more likely to pursue higher education and earn a better income. And for you, my son, it means you might grow up to be a hands-on dad yourself. How cool is that? Plus, you’ll get to attend a great school and enjoy a big backyard to play in.

Perhaps most importantly, I’m grateful that I have something in my life outside of being your mom. A fulfilled mom is a happy mom, and that’s good for all of us.

But let’s get real—I do have my worries. I sometimes fret that you might envy those kids whose moms are home full-time. I worry about missing soccer games or band concerts, and I hope that my busy work life doesn’t lead you to blame me for any future issues. Sometimes I think about how many of my friends are stay-at-home moms, and I hope you realize that I’m not the only one juggling work and family.

Despite my worries, what I mostly feel is gratitude. I’m thankful you get to see your parents defying traditional gender roles, which means you won’t feel trapped by them. I’m grateful for family nearby who can lend a hand when needed. And most of all, I cherish those big, sloppy goodnight kisses and “I love you, Mommy” that remind me that my job doesn’t diminish our love for each other.

Remember, my working doesn’t change how much I adore you.

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In summary, being a working mom comes with its challenges, but it also brings immense joy and invaluable lessons for our family. I wouldn’t trade it for anything.