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Is Your 6-Year-Old Prepared for First Grade?
My mom has this funny story from when she was just six, navigating the streets of Montreal all by herself on her way to first grade. One day, running a bit late, she cleverly decided to take a shortcut through St. Augustine’s church. That way, when the nuns questioned her tardiness, she could honestly say she had been to church, which would surely save her from a scolding.
She also reminisced about a classmate who frequently got sent home for misbehaving. Instead of facing her parents, she’d catch a ride with the milkman and spend her day cruising around in his truck. Sounds pretty safe, right?
I thought of these anecdotes after stumbling across a 1979 checklist for six-year-olds prepping for school in an article on Slate. Some of the checklist items still hold true today, like:
- Can your child communicate their home address clearly to a crossing guard or police officer?
- Can they color within the lines?
- Can they balance on one foot with their eyes shut for five to ten seconds?
But then there’s this one that would definitely raise eyebrows today: Can they walk alone around the neighborhood (four to eight blocks) to the store, school, playground, or a friend’s house? This question is what sparked the Free Range Kids movement and some pretty heated debates.
KJ Antonia from Slate pointed out how much has changed in just about 35 years. The 1979 first grader, who needed to be “six years, six months” old and have “two to five permanent or second teeth,” would be seen as a model child ready for preschool today. And in terms of life skills? She’d be off riding her bike to school and finding her own way home!
Have our cities really transformed that much? Are we simply more aware of the lurking dangers? Or have we all lost our minds?
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In summary, the expectations and experiences of children preparing for school have evolved significantly over the decades, raising questions about safety and independence in our modern world.