Is It Acceptable to Share My Child’s Achievements on Facebook?

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There I was, hovering over my keyboard, contemplating the blue Facebook icon. Should I share my news or keep it to myself? This week, I received fantastic news: my daughter, a college senior set to graduate next month, has been inducted into the esteemed Phi Beta Kappa society, the oldest and most prestigious academic honor society in the U.S.

Maddie has truly earned this recognition. She’s maintained nearly straight-A grades, launched a new club on campus, and has been interning at the career center for over a year. This is a huge accomplishment! Naturally, I called my husband, who stepped out of a meeting just to hear the news. I also shot off emails to her grandparents, aunts, and uncles. I was bursting to share my excitement.

But then doubt crept in. Posting about Maddie’s achievement on Facebook could come across as major bragging. What if it felt excessive to others? I know friends whose children are facing challenges, and I remember times when my kids were dealing with their own hurdles—poor grades, difficult choices, or just the mundane ups and downs of life. We’ve all had those days when there’s not much to report, and it’s often more about struggle than success.

Yet, here I was, thrilled about Maddie’s induction. Neither my husband nor I were standout students—we lived average lives, and that’s perfectly fine. But as parents, we all believe our kids are destined for greatness. Most of our children will likely lead ordinary lives peppered with extraordinary moments. So, is it acceptable to share our children’s milestones on social media?

This question has weighed on my mind for a while. I genuinely enjoy hearing about my friends’ kids’ achievements, whether through social media or in person. Sure, there’s a twinge of jealousy now and then, but my happiness for them usually outweighs it. I asked a friend for her perspective on the matter, and she said, “I don’t want to be friends just during tough times. I want to celebrate the good stuff too.”

I like to think this sentiment reflects most of my circle. My Facebook friends range from long-lost high school mates to acquaintances from town, and even family members. While we all have our battles, Facebook often presents a filtered view of life—focusing on the highlights while glossing over the daily struggles.

So, should I share Maddie’s news? Would my writing friends, casual acquaintances, or fellow townsfolk want to know? There’s a certain ease in broadcasting the news once instead of reaching out to everyone individually, which can feel overwhelming. Plus, most people would likely celebrate Maddie’s success with genuine happiness.

With my hands poised over the keyboard, I typed, read, and pondered a bit, then finally hit Post.

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Summary:

Sharing your child’s achievements on social media can be a source of joy and pride, but it may also raise concerns about appearing boastful. Balancing the desire to celebrate milestones with sensitivity to friends facing challenges is key. Ultimately, sharing good news can foster connection and support among friends and family.