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10 Things People Say When You’re Approaching 30 and Childless
As my 30th birthday looms on the horizon, so does a surge of questions about kids—thanks to my family, friends, and even random strangers. Oh, and let’s not forget my mother, who’s particularly inquisitive! While my husband and I do plan to have children eventually (hence our recent home purchase), the timeline is still up in the air.
After nearly four years of marriage, it seems like the societal expectation is to have a baby nine months post-honeymoon. Sure, some couples dive right into parenthood, and that’s great for them. But with all the moving we’ve done—four states in four years—I can’t help but think how much harder it would have been with a little one in tow.
Everyone has their own reasons for delaying or opting out of parenthood, whether it’s lifestyle choices, fertility challenges, or simply not feeling ready. Yet, I often find myself on the receiving end of these not-so-fun comments:
- “When I was your age, I already had 2/3/6 kids!”
That’s nice, but I’ve explored Europe twice and crisscrossed the U.S. I know families travel with kids, but it’s probably easier without them. - “You look like a natural holding that baby. Maybe it’s time for one of your own!”
Right? I didn’t even drop it! Time to sign me up for parenting classes, I guess. - “Let me tell you this horror story about when I had my baby…”
Please, do share! I’m sure that’ll make me want kids even more. As for me, my most traumatic experience was a dog scratch. - “You’re not getting any younger.”
Thanks for the reminder! But hey, neither are you. - “Your kids will be SO cute.”
If they’re not, are returns an option? Oh, I see—you think my future child’s mixed heritage will guarantee cuteness. - “Are you next?”
I can’t control the baby-making timelines of others, so your guess is as good as mine. - “Having a dog isn’t like having a child.”
Thank goodness! Dogs can be left alone for hours—definitely not the case with kids. Plus, my pup stopped waking me up at night pretty quickly! - “You’ve already had a puppy. You can deal with a baby!”
Seriously? You can’t have it both ways—either parenting is a breeze or it’s a monumental task. - “Can’t you hear your biological clock ticking?”
Nope! I’m too busy listening to music. Maybe it’s just out of tune. - “So…when are you going to have a baby?”
Not in the next nine months, that’s a guarantee. But don’t worry; you’ll find out eventually. Just not as early as you might like!
Honestly, it would be great if people could refrain from asking these questions. They often lead to awkward moments, whether you realize it or not. Of course, parents are exempt from this rule because they’ll ask what they want anyway—Hi, Mom!
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In summary, navigating societal expectations around parenthood while approaching 30 can be challenging. It’s important to remember that everyone has their own path and timing regarding family planning.