We all know that parenting can be exhausting, and kids who are not great at sleeping can leave you feeling even more drained. While the fatigue is expected, sleep-deprived parents might notice some peculiar and sometimes unsettling shifts in their lives after managing sleepless nights for months or even years.
1. Obsession with Sleep
All you wish for during holidays (and every special occasion) is a good night’s sleep. When asked what you want, sleep is the only thing that comes to mind. This fixation on rest has overshadowed your other life aspirations. It’s like your primal instincts are kicking in! However, when you finally get a chance to snooze, you find it hard to actually fall asleep due to…
2. Deep Existential Musings
Once upon a time, falling asleep was a simple daily task that you barely thought about. Now, it’s a multiple-times-a-night challenge filled with anxiety, leading to some profound thoughts. How do we slip into unconsciousness? One moment you’re awake, and the next you’re not. It’s a little eerie! Is sleep akin to death? What if I didn’t have to drift into oblivion every night? Not only is it inconvenient, but it also gives me the heebie-jeebies. And of course…
3. Everyone Else’s Kids Are Sleep Champions
It’s astonishing how it seems like everyone around you has kids who sleep like angels from a young age. Your siblings, friends, even random acquaintances—everybody appears to have these mythical children who snooze through the night by the time they hit a few months old (or at least by their second birthday, which is a distant dream for you at this point). This leads to…
4. Inability to Relate to Other Parents’ Grievances
You’ll come across stories of parents who miss their children when they sleep or cry when their little ones no longer need them at night. While they are entitled to their feelings, you can’t seem to connect. Some parents complain about feeling tired after just six hours of sleep! You’re not just envious (though, let’s be honest, you are), but you’re also puzzled about how this is even possible. Which brings me to my final point…
5. Low Expectations, High Tolerance
After years of dashed hopes and constant adjustments, you’ve learned to appreciate the smallest victories. You can now handle chaotic scenarios that would send other parents into a frenzy. Bedtime took only an hour? Yay! Three uninterrupted hours of sleep? Praise the heavens! Your child wants to snuggle in your bed (or on the kitchen floor)? Fantastic! The house is a disaster, the kids are bickering, and dinner is a battlefield… whatever! As long as they sleep tonight, it’s all good!
But let’s be real, that might not happen. Until then, I can at least take comfort in knowing I’m kind of a parenting warrior.
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Summary
Sleep-deprived parents often experience odd transformations, from an intense focus on sleep to existential reflections and an inability to relate to other parents’ complaints. They may also find joy in small victories and develop a high tolerance for chaos.