5 Things I’m Planning to Do Before Welcoming Baby Number Two

I won’t sugarcoat it: the thought of transitioning from one child to two has me feeling a bit anxious. My son, Charlie, is already 7, which means my husband, him, and I have enjoyed a solid seven years of “just us.” We’re thrilled about the arrival of a little sister, but let’s be real—it’s a big change! I’m confident that our adjustment will be beautifully chaotic, but before that day arrives, there are five things I want to tackle:

1. Organize Quality Family and One-on-One Time with Charlie

Since we broke the news to him about being a big brother, we’ve been prioritizing family bonding, which has been fantastic. We’ve always valued family time, but carving out extra moments for just the three of us and some special one-on-one time with Charlie has been invaluable. We want to reassure him that even with a new baby in the mix, he’ll always have our attention and love.

2. Savor Some Solo Time That’s Not Mom-Related

This is a biggie for me! I know that my focus will shift almost entirely to the new baby in a few months, so I want to recharge before that happens. Taking some time for myself is essential to ensure I can be the best mom possible.

3. Create a Memorable Date Night with My Husband

Like many couples, my husband and I often let our date nights fall by the wayside. Just last week, we managed to sneak in a quick lunch date while Charlie was at school, and it was a heartwarming reminder of how important those moments are. If I can squeeze in one more night out at a great restaurant or a fun local adventure together, I’ll consider myself one happy mama.

4. Plan a Few Family Activities for Post-Baby

It might sound a bit crazy to think so far ahead, but I’m naturally a planner. As we prep for the new arrival—assembling cribs, receiving baby gear, and even setting up the stroller—I want Charlie to know that we’re still a family unit. Making plans together will give us all something to look forward to once the baby arrives.

5. Catch Up on Sleep

Ah, pregnancy fatigue! It’s been sneaking up on me while my ambitious spirit pushes me to keep going. I know I need to embrace relaxation and make napping a priority.

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In summary, preparing for baby number two is both exciting and nerve-wracking. I’m making sure to focus on family time, personal rejuvenation, and a few adventures with my husband before we dive into this new adventure together.