Navigating the complexities of work and motherhood is no easy feat. Many people ask me how I manage it all, and my unapologetic response is, “I don’t.” Balance, as far as I can tell, is a myth. Instead, I juggle a chaotic mix of responsibilities while trying to keep my sanity intact.
Take this for example: it was my first day at a new job—a major opportunity—just nine weeks after welcoming my daughter. I stepped into the office exuding confidence, determined to present myself as a professional without a hint of my mom life interfering. After all, who can possibly handle three kids? Not me, at least not at work.
The morning started off smoothly. I roused the kids, got everyone ready, and managed to get them out the door. But as I pulled into my son’s school, disaster struck. He vomited all over the backseat—thankfully missing me. Panic set in as I realized I had only an hour to make it to my new job. I quickly appealed to any higher power that might help me salvage the day. Miraculously, my mom was available to assist, which is rare.
A flurry of frantic activities followed: I drove distractedly while tossing out the soiled car seats, wiped the sweat from my brow, and borrowed a clean shirt all while racing to my new workplace with the windows down to dispel the stench. I managed to arrive just five minutes late.
Greeting my new colleagues with a smile, I couldn’t shake the guilt of leaving my son behind when he needed me most. As I participated in orientation, part of my mind was still checking in on him. I felt guilty for prioritizing my career once again. Nevertheless, I maintained my facade because the expectation is to make it all look effortless.
This juggling act is what being a working mom entails—an unspoken requirement in the job description. We must appear to thrive in the chaos, but behind the scenes, it’s often a mess. Is it worth it? Absolutely, if you want both a fulfilling career and family life. But is it easy? Far from it.
Here’s to all the working moms out there: to the hustle, to the constant struggle of feeling like you’re doing it all wrong, and to those moments of triumph amid the chaos of parenting and professional life. We stand together through the challenges of deadlines, sick days, and all the other demands life throws at us.
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In summary, being a working mom requires an incredible amount of effort and the ability to present a composed exterior, even when things feel chaotic underneath. It’s a demanding yet rewarding journey that many women navigate daily.