As the school year rolls around, parents of eighth-graders in my district are greeted with the curriculum outline for a reproductive health class that heavily emphasizes abstinence. As I skim through the agenda, I can’t help but notice that a significant portion focuses on various ways to say no to sex: “Not Everyone is Engaging in Sex,” “Choosing Not to Have Sex,” and “Declining Sex” — each a distinct class, mind you.
While I appreciate the inclusion of two classes dedicated to safer practices and protection, I can’t shake my frustration when I reach the section labeled, “Impact of Pregnancy,” immediately followed by “Adoption and Safe Delivery.” That’s it.
In my frantic search for any mention of an alternative option to giving birth, I come up empty. It’s a stark reminder that, despite abortion being a legal and safe choice in the U.S., conservative lawmakers have effectively silenced discussions about it in our schools. They’ve imposed a slew of regulations that restrict not just access to abortion but even the mere mention of it in educational settings.
Talking about abortion is treated like discussing taboo subjects like religion — off-limits, as if acknowledging it would be akin to preaching rather than presenting a vital aspect of healthcare. Teachers are expected to address abortion as if it were a hidden truth, much like how we approach the uncomfortable realities of our nation’s history.
The underlying message is clear: some healthcare options are so controversial that they must remain unspoken. This silence can have a damaging impact on young people’s self-esteem. Research indicates that one in three cisgender women will experience an abortion at some point in their lives — some may be our children or their friends.
When we can’t even utter the word “abortion” in a reproductive health class, we contribute to a culture that shames individuals for their bodies and the choices they make. It’s time we break this silence and foster an environment where all options can be discussed openly and honestly.
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In summary, we must advocate for comprehensive sex education that includes discussions about abortion. By doing so, we empower our children to understand their choices and foster a more informed and accepting society.