The Rising Trend of ‘Lotus Births’: A Closer Look

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In the world of childbirth, I pride myself on being open-minded about the various choices women make. Whether you prefer giving birth in a serene tub in your backyard or opting for the comfort of an epidural, it’s all valid. What truly matters is that a mother feels in control and empowered by her decisions, regardless of how the birth unfolds.

I embraced a more holistic approach during my own birthing experiences. I welcomed my children at home with the support of two skilled midwives, and we chose to delay bathing our newborns for several days, aside from minor clean-ups. This allowed for extended skin-to-skin bonding, which I found invaluable.

Given my background, you might assume I would be intrigued by the growing trend of lotus births, which is gaining traction across social media. If you’re unfamiliar, lotus birth involves leaving the umbilical cord attached to the placenta until it naturally detaches, which can take anywhere from three to ten days. This means carrying the placenta around in a bowl or container everywhere the baby goes.

To be honest, I find the idea perplexing. While I respect anyone’s choice to pursue this practice, the thought of having a decomposing organ attached to my newborn for days is far from appealing. Proponents believe that lotus birth offers a natural and spiritually enriching experience. As described by LotusBirth.net, this practice allows families to reconnect with nature and embrace a more organic rhythm of life. But do I really need to tote around a decaying organ to achieve that? It seems counterintuitive to the idea of simply being present in those early days.

The logistics of managing a newborn while also dealing with a placenta sound overwhelming. Diaper changes and breastfeeding could become cumbersome, and adding a bowl of decay into the mix seems more stressful than serene—especially for parents with other small children.

A crucial question arises: Does this practice have any health benefits? Unfortunately, none of the lotus birth advocates cite substantial medical evidence, and I couldn’t find any studies supporting it. To delve deeper, I consulted Dr. Laura Greene, a pediatrician based in California who specializes in labor and delivery. She expressed skepticism about the practice, stating, “There’s no concrete evidence to support it. I don’t believe any randomized control trials have examined the health outcomes associated with lotus versus traditional birth.”

Dr. Greene also raised concerns about potential infections that could arise as the placenta decomposes, echoing warnings issued by the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists regarding non-severed births. She clarified the distinction between lotus birth and delayed cord clamping, the latter of which allows for the transfer of blood from the placenta to the baby before cutting the cord. Delayed cord clamping is backed by health organizations for its documented benefits.

So call me skeptical, or perhaps even disconnected from the spiritual side of things, but the idea of carrying around a bowl of decomposing tissue doesn’t sound like a path to enlightenment. Instead, it seems more like a logistical nightmare during an already challenging time.

In summary, while lotus births are on the rise, the lack of medical evidence and potential complications raises questions about their practicality and health implications. If you’re looking for reliable information on pregnancy and home insemination, consider checking out resources like NHS and Make a Mom for a comprehensive understanding of your options.