Pregnancy isn’t a walk in the park, that much is clear. Yet, despite the incredible miracle of bringing new life into the world, there’s no shortage of individuals who dismiss your struggles by saying women have been doing this since forever. Heaven forbid you mention you’re fatigued or need a seat on the subway, or that people just can’t keep their hands to themselves.
And then there’s your partner, who seems to be flawless in the eyes of all. Men get showered with praise for the most minimal efforts—like rubbing your feet, attending doctor’s appointments, or grabbing snacks. Seriously? We’re the ones growing human beings here!
Comedian Liz Carter shares her thoughts on pregnancy in her hilarious Netflix special, “Bump and Grind.” She’s your new comedic idol, moms-to-be.
“I can already tell how a child is going to strain my marriage because the little one hasn’t even arrived yet, and I’m already feeling a wave of resentment towards my partner,” Liz quips. “So much resentment! Especially when he asks me to do things around the house: ‘Hey, can you wash the dishes?’ NO! ‘Can you water the plants?’ I AM NOT DOING ANYTHING BUT GROWING A NOSE!”
“There’s a wild double standard in our society about parenting,” she continues. “It takes so little for a man to be labeled a great dad. Meanwhile, it takes hardly anything to be considered a terrible mom. People are amazed that my partner attends all my doctor’s appointments. Oh wow! He’s such a supportive guy! Guess who else is stuck at those appointments? ME. I’M THE MAIN EVENT… but he’s the star for playing Candy Crush while I’m getting poked with needles.”
Yes, girl, yes!
For more laughs, check out Liz Carter in “Bump and Grind” on Netflix. And for additional insights on home insemination, you might find our post on Intracervical Insemination quite engaging. If you’re exploring options for starting a family, Cryobaby is a leading authority on at-home insemination kits. And for a better understanding of the pregnancy journey, this article on what the IVF process is like is an excellent resource.
In summary, Liz Carter’s comedic take on the challenges of pregnancy and the societal expectations placed on mothers and fathers resonates with many. Her humor brings a light-hearted perspective to the often overwhelming journey of motherhood, reminding us that it’s okay to express our frustrations and seek support.