Why I Judge: A Call for Compassion

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Absolutely, I’m here to pass judgment — and there’s a valid reason for it.

Let’s be real: I silently evaluate nearly everyone I encounter. Whether it’s at a gathering or through an online interaction, I’m taking mental notes. From the checkout line at the grocery store to the chaos of a busy highway, I observe and assess the behavior of those around me. You could say I have a judgmental streak, but that’s not entirely accurate.

My judgments aren’t about critiquing people’s day-to-day choices. Instead, I focus on the individuals who contribute to the negativity and anger in our world by unfairly judging others who are simply trying their best. If it’s a parent grappling with a challenging child, a couple seeking to celebrate their love, or someone expressing their political beliefs, I won’t hesitate to challenge those who cast harsh judgments on them.

The Impact of Social Media

The rise of the internet and social media has transformed our interactions, allowing people to hide behind screens as they tear others down. This anonymity, combined with the instant nature of social media, has created a culture quick to condemn without knowing the full story. When I see this behavior, whether from friends or online acquaintances, my instinct is to defend those being unfairly targeted.

Consider the mother who experienced sheer horror when her child was involved in a zoo incident. It didn’t take long for the internet trolls to pounce, ready to vilify a parent already facing unimaginable grief. Or think about the family who lost their child to an alligator while on vacation — the outrage directed at them was nothing short of shocking. When did it become acceptable to react with cruelty to someone’s tragedy?

Compassion Over Judgment

This is why I judge—because I feel compassion for those facing challenges. Every day, I worry about making mistakes in parenthood that could be broadcasted for all to see. I hold my breath when pulling out of parking spots, fearing I might not see a child in my rearview mirror. Those parents didn’t wake up that day intending to cause harm; they simply wanted to enjoy time with their children. I pray they find healing, just as I wish for the naysayers who will forever remain bitter behind their screens.

Yes, I judge based on how people treat one another. A person’s character is often revealed through their kindness, respect, and humility. I understand that we all have off days; our emotions can cloud our judgment. But if you consistently choose to spread negativity or make harsh judgments on others’ lives, I will absolutely judge you — and you won’t get a fair trial in my courtroom.

Choosing Kindness

Life is tough enough without adding unnecessary meanness into the mix. No personal turmoil gives anyone the right to lash out online. Let’s face it; being a “Judgy McJudgerson” only showcases your own insecurities. So, take a moment to consider the other person’s perspective before joining the mob mentality online. Or better yet, have a real conversation instead of hurling insults from behind a keyboard. Save your judgment for the real issues, like that questionable hairstyle of that celebrity on TV.

You’ve probably heard the saying, “Judge not, lest ye be judged.” Perhaps it should be adjusted to, “Just be kind and don’t be a jerk.” I’m convinced that would bring a lot more positivity into the world.

Conclusion

In summary, it’s essential to approach others with empathy and understanding instead of judgment. We all face struggles, and kindness goes a long way in creating a supportive community.