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To My Son as You Begin Your Junior Year of High School
Dear Max,
I used to eagerly await the end of summer, counting down the days until school would kick off again and our routine would be back in place. As a working mom, I often felt guilty for not spending those hot afternoons with you by the pool. I found myself wishing summer away, convinced that if you were in class like everyone else, I was doing right by you.
Sometimes, I fear I rushed through your childhood, and now I find myself longing to freeze time. Can you believe how emotional I was on your first day of kindergarten? Watching you hop onto that yellow bus was a wake-up call that my little boy wouldn’t stay little forever. Your first soccer game felt like a milestone, a generational handoff. And even now, when the national anthem plays at your games, I can’t help but get a lump in my throat.
Time is flying, and the finish line is in sight. There are only two more first-day-of-school photos left to snap. Soon enough, you’ll have your driver’s license, and your lacrosse and soccer games will dwindle. You might not realize this, but Facebook (the grandparent of social media) is overflowing with sentimental letters from moms to their high school seniors, all of which make me tear up.
I’m not great at handling milestones, so I know your senior year will bring plenty of tears from me. But we’re not there yet — we still have your junior year to navigate. This is my last chance to make sure I’ve covered all the bases with you before the whirlwind of next year hits. So, here’s a list of things to ponder as you step into your junior year:
- This Year Matters. No do-overs here! By senior year, it’ll be too late for college coaches to take notice. Focus on your grades, sports, and SAT prep. Give it your all on the lacrosse and soccer fields and in the classroom. There won’t be a second chance; it’s crunch time!
- Be a Role Model. Younger kids are looking up to you. As an upperclassman, your peers admire you, and your six little cousins see you as a hero. Don’t let them down. Embrace your natural leadership — be kind, honest, humble, and show them your best self.
- Put Family First. Right now, we may seem like the most annoying people on the planet, but guess what? We love you. Talk to Dad and me; we know more than you think. Your grandparents cherish hearing from you, so reach out sometimes. And be nice to your sister — she’s your lifelong buddy.
- Choose Wisely. You might feel invincible, but remember: one poor choice can alter your life’s path. Don’t drink and drive, and never ride with someone who has been drinking or using drugs. Make smart decisions. And if you ever find yourself in a tricky situation, just call me for a ride. Oh, and if you become sexually active, remember to be safe; birth control is part of that responsibility too.
- Start Thinking About Your Future. I know it feels like a job is far off, but it’s closer than you realize. You’ll spend a large part of your life working. Do you see yourself in an office, coaching on a field, or exploring nature? Hold on to what you love and think about how you can turn it into a career. Use your talents to make a positive impact, and work will feel less like work.
- Have Fun! Enjoy this almost-last year of high school. The pressure is there, but it’s not overwhelming yet. Go to football games, hang out with your friends, and indulge in plenty of pizza. The real world can wait a bit longer.
Before you know it, you’ll be living on your own. I hope I’ve been a good enough mom to give you a solid foundation to build your life upon. As you step into your junior year, childhood is trailing behind you. You’re on the brink of adulthood, my dear — you’re almost a man.
Love,
Mom
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In summary, as you enter your junior year, remember to cherish the moments, make wise choices, and have fun. This year is a crucial stepping stone to your future, so embrace it fully.