The Type of Friends Who Get You Through Motherhood

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By: Mia Thompson
Updated: Dec. 2, 2023
Originally Published: Sep. 20, 2023

Navigating the wild ride of motherhood and marriage is a lot easier when you have a crew of fierce, no-nonsense women by your side. I affectionately refer to them as my “soul sisters” because they truly understand me and embrace my quirks without a hint of judgment. They are my rock, my heart, and my sanity. These women are anything but ordinary; let’s be real—basic friendships just don’t cut it. I need empowered, straightforward women on my side, especially when life feels like an uphill battle.

Chances are, some of your best pals have been in your life long before you became a mom. They’ve witnessed your lowest lows and can attest to the incredible journey you’ve taken. Many of mine are just as amazed as I am that I’ve managed to keep it together (mostly) and somehow juggle a household. And of course, you’ve likely formed some amazing new bonds since stepping into motherhood.

Each of these incredible women brings something unique to the table, but they all inspire me daily and keep me grounded. They are my steady support, my sounding board for those moments I feel like losing it (which is pretty frequent). They guide me when I can’t seem to find my way, making me a better person and mom in the process.

Sure, our partners are fantastic, but let’s be honest—they just don’t get the whirlwind of thoughts spinning in our heads. It’s not their fault; they lack the genetic wiring for that level of chaos. This is where our soul sisters come in. They come from diverse backgrounds but share a common thread: these friendships are unbreakable and built on genuine care for one another’s well-being, no matter what it takes.

They are always the first to have your back. With a quick text, they’ll be at your door ready to tackle a crisis or pop open a bottle of wine. For them, 5 PM isn’t just a time; it’s an opportunity to rise to the occasion when life gets messy. They’ll help you break down your struggles into manageable pieces and devise the best strategy for tackling them. If someone crosses you, they’ll be the first to defend you—soul sisters always stand strong together.

They keep you in check. They might not jump in with their opinions right away, but they know how to guide you through your craziness. They ask the tough questions like, “Are you sure that’s how it happened?” or “Could you have possibly provoked the situation?” Once they break through your defenses and help you see the truth, they’ll be right there to brainstorm solutions. These women want you to be your best self, even if their honesty stings at first.

They’re like honorary aunts to your kids, loving them as if they were their own. They’ll babysit for free, shower your little ones with gifts, and dive deep into research alongside you when your child seems off. Even when they don’t have the answers, they’ll track down experts and check in on you relentlessly to ensure you’re navigating parenthood successfully. Your kids’ challenges become their challenges, and they never back down.

They’re advocates for your marriage, too. Instead of jumping on the gossip train when you and your husband hit a rough patch, they remind you of the reasons you fell in love in the first place. They help you return to the core of your relationship without fanning the flames of conflict. If you’re in the wrong, they’ll let you know and encourage you to make amends. You might grumble when they call you out, but deep down, you know they have the best intentions for both you and your partner.

They know when to give you space. Soul sisters can sense when you’re struggling and act accordingly. They understand when to be a source of positivity and when to simply let you vent. Sometimes, words aren’t necessary; they can read your mood like it’s an open book. They know when to let you unleash your frustrations and when to just be quietly supportive.

I remember a particularly challenging time when I went through some postpartum struggles. I avoided my best friend Jenna’s calls for weeks. When I finally picked up, she didn’t bombard me with questions; she just said, “I just wanted to hear your voice. I feel like a piece of me is missing without you.” She didn’t need my sob story; she just needed to know I was okay. I’m incredibly grateful that I can be my authentic self around these amazing women, regardless of how dark those moments might get.

You’re guaranteed to have a blast together, no matter the circumstances. Whether you’re lounging at a beach, enjoying a luxury hotel stay, or stuck at home during a blackout, you and your soul sisters will always find a way to enjoy each other’s company. You’ll share laughs over the silliest things and concoct the most outrageous plans. You’ll dive deep into discussions about your past, present, and future, sharing your hopes and fears. Sometimes, you might just enjoy comfortable silence, but they see you for who you are and love you all the same.

I hope every woman can find her own soul sisters who complete her world. I can’t imagine who I’d be without the support and love these friends have offered me through life’s challenges. Walking alongside someone in friendship—even when it feels like you’re dragging them through the mud—is a rare and beautiful thing. Treasure these ladies and don’t ever let them go. So go ahead, pour yourself a glass of wine, grab your soul sisters, and let them know how much you love them; they complete you.

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Summary:

Having a solid group of friends—your soul sisters—can make the chaotic journey of motherhood and marriage a lot more manageable. These fierce women offer unwavering support, honest feedback, and love for your children as if they were their own. They celebrate your victories, help you navigate challenges, and remind you of the importance of your marriage. Whether you’re having fun or going through tough times, these friendships are invaluable. So raise a glass to those soul sisters who complete your life!