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A Mother’s Note to Her Childfree Friends: ‘Thank You for Caring About My Kids’
When it comes to parenting, mom and author Sarah Mitchell is all about keeping it real. Whether she’s sharing the struggles of being a stay-at-home mom, celebrating the beauty of her post-baby body, or pointing out the contradictions of motherhood, Sarah doesn’t hold back. In her latest viral post, she extends a heartfelt message to her friends without children: “Thank you for caring about my kids.”
“You show up to my kids’ birthday parties, not because you’re obligated, but because you genuinely want to be there.” Let’s face it; even as parents, we sometimes dread the chaos of kids’ parties. They can be loud, chaotic, and a bit stinky. So when our childfree friends come with gifts in hand, we know it’s a sign they truly care. We appreciate your support, even if we’re too busy trying to manage a group of hyperactive six-year-olds to express our gratitude.
“You join me at kid-friendly restaurants, munching on curly fries while my little rascals commandeer your phone and accidentally spill your drink, all the while you could be enjoying a night out at some hip new spot.” This sentiment rings true. Spending time with childfree friends often brings fresh perspectives and exciting stories from the outside world. They remind us of life beyond diaper changes and nap schedules.
Sarah even acknowledges those friends who might find joy in her children bittersweet, especially if they’ve faced challenges in their own journeys to parenthood. “Some of you may have longed for children of your own, yet instead of feeling envy, you immerse yourselves in my kids’ lives and love them wholeheartedly.”
Typically, when a post starts with, “Dear friends without kids,” it’s a prelude to a diatribe on how parents have it tougher. But Sarah’s message is the opposite; it’s an honest thank you to friends who might not be parents but still embrace our children as part of their extended family.
“I can’t recall a time before parenthood when I was selfless enough to give up a Saturday night just to hang out with a friend’s kid on the floor.”
So, to our childfree friends who love and support us and our families: thank you. We truly couldn’t navigate this parenting journey without you. And rest assured, we’ll pay for that shirt you just spilled juice on.
For more insights on the journey to parenthood, check out this post about home insemination. It offers valuable information and resources on the topic, including the excellent guidelines from the World Health Organization about pregnancy and home insemination.
Summary
Sarah Mitchell expresses gratitude to her childfree friends for their love and support of her children. She highlights the selflessness of those who attend kids’ events and share stories from their lives, creating a valuable friendship dynamic. Her message celebrates the bond between parents and their non-parent friends, emphasizing that they are an essential part of the parenting village.