Why I’m Embracing My Late 30s

I used to dread my birthday. Another year older? Ugh. But as I navigate my late 30s, I’ve discovered that aging can be a refreshing and freeing experience. There’s a certain peace that comes with this stage of life. Instead of fixating on what I haven’t done, I find joy in celebrating how far I’ve come. I finally feel like I’ve earned my wisdom and experience, and you know what? I’m here for it.

What’s Changed?

Well, besides a shift in my outlook and a newfound comfort in my skin, motherhood has played a significant part. It’s pushed me to shed my less desirable traits so I can be a role model for my kids. Self-criticism? No longer on the agenda. It’s not just about me anymore.

Physically, sure, I’m still aging. Looking back at my 20s, I want to shake my younger self for stressin’ over my weight and skin. I looked fab! Now, well, let’s just say my body has its quirks—sagging, wrinkles, the works. But mentally? I’m thriving.

Celebrating the Simple Things

The extravagant birthday parties? Yeah, those days are behind me. I used to drag out my birthdays into week-long celebrations, trying to mask my anxiety about aging with grand festivities. Now, I find happiness in the simple things—a quiet night at home, take-out, and an uninterrupted shower. My family surprised me this year with a homemade card, my favorite meal, and an ice cream cake. It was the little things that made me feel cherished.

Savoring the Present

I’ve also learned to savor the present. Whether it’s chasing fireflies with my child or indulging in spontaneous snow cones, I’m no longer a slave to my to-do list. My house may be a mess, but I realize these moments are fleeting, and I want to soak them up.

Embracing Imperfections

As for my imperfections? I’ve finally embraced them. I’m opinionated, sometimes moody, and controlling. But guess what? That’s me! I’ll never be the mom with perfectly organized bake sales, and I’m okay with that. I take ownership of my choices and thoughts, and my late 30s have brought a newfound confidence. Yes, I can be a bit of a hot mess, and that’s alright.

Body Image Issues? So Last Decade

I’m done comparing myself to others. I’ve carried and given birth to my child (soon to be two!) and wear my battle scars proudly. I might not have the perfect body, but I’ve got a family that adores me, and I can still rock skinny jeans and heels when the mood strikes.

Learning to Just Be

For the first time, I feel like I can just be. My life used to be a race to achieve more, but now I’m learning to appreciate the here and now. I don’t need the next big thing to be happy—just a moment to breathe.

Owning My Actions

And let’s talk about pride. I’ve learned to own my actions, confront issues, and apologize—not just because I’m wrong, but because I value my relationships. Life’s too short for grudges. I’m all about laying my feelings out there and moving on.

Honestly, I thought turning 37 would be tough, but it turned out to be liberating. I’m stronger, bolder, and more self-assured than I was in my 20s. Life is simpler and way more enjoyable. Can I get an “amen” for that?

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In Summary

My late 30s have been a time of acceptance, joy, and a renewed sense of self. I’m more content, more present, and ready to embrace the chaos that comes with motherhood.