When my partner was expecting our first child nearly a decade ago, I was bombarded with advice on how to successfully navigate life with a pregnant person. While some was well-meaning and aimed at helping me be supportive, much of it didn’t prepare me for the wild ride ahead. So, let’s cut to the chase. Here are the real pregnancy tips I wish someone had shared with me.
- Take notes when you’re sent on a craving run. Coming back with the wrong dip could lead to chaos.
- Never compare your pregnant partner to large items (house, whale, etc.)—it’s just rude.
- Attending OB-GYN appointments is one of the most attractive things a dad can do.
- When she cries, sometimes silence is golden.
- Surrender control of the thermostat; it’s just easier that way.
- Feeling tired? That’s fine, but unless you’re growing a little human, keep it to yourself.
- Your old sweats and T-shirts are NOT a suitable replacement for maternity wear, no matter how budget-friendly it seems.
- Comparing morning sickness to a hangover might be funny for a few seconds, but it won’t land well after that.
- If you’re sent out for pastries, snap cell phone pics of the options to avoid a second trip.
- Pregnancy amplifies everything, especially snoring. Don’t take it to heart if you find yourself on the couch.
- Steer clear of the term “cankle.”
- No man is too large to harm the baby, so just go ahead and be intimate.
- Don’t question a pregnant woman’s need to pee; assume she always needs to go.
- Supporting her is 90% about reassuring her that she’ll make a fantastic mother.
- The final weeks before delivery can feel like an approaching cliff.
- Comparing baby kicks to a scene from Alien? Not the best way to win points.
- Keep your thoughts on hormones to yourself; it’s safer that way.
- Don’t hesitate to argue that she’s beautiful, even if she doubts it.
- Treat her like royalty because she’s growing your child. Seriously, that’s enough said.
These tips could just scratch the surface, but they’ll definitely get expectant fathers off on the right foot. If you’ve got more wisdom to share, drop it in the comments! New dads are going to need all the help they can get.
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In summary, being a supportive partner during pregnancy requires a blend of understanding, humor, and a willingness to adapt. It’s a journey full of ups and downs, but with the right mindset, you’ll both come out stronger on the other side.