9 Behaviors to Steer Clear of Unless You Want to Be Super Rude

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By Jamie Mitchell

Updated: Dec. 21, 2023

Originally Published: November 5, 2023

It feels like the world has gone utterly bonkers lately. Social media debates are erupting over politics, grocery store skirmishes are breaking out over phone calls and cart blockages, and just one glance at rush hour traffic confirms that rudeness is the new norm everywhere you look. Remember that saying, “You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar”? Well, it seems like everyone’s walking around with a giant bottle of vinegar these days.

From “reply all” emails to ignoring phone calls, using your phone in the bathroom, and filming a school performance with a massive iPad—everywhere you go, rudeness is rampant, and it’s baffling. When did we decide that being rude was just okay? Sure, everyone has their moments, but constantly being rude? That’s just not cool. So, let’s break down a list of obnoxious behaviors that signal you might be rude AF.

1. Skipping the Tip? Rude AF.

Servers often earn next to nothing and work hard in busy restaurants. If your food took a while to arrive, don’t blame the server. They’re juggling multiple tables, likely filled with demanding diners like yourself. Leave a tip, be generous, and appreciate that someone else handled the dishes tonight.

2. Ignoring RSVPs is Rude AF.

When you receive an invitation, respond! It’s simple. No need to keep the host in suspense. If you can’t make it, just say so. Leaving them hanging? Rude.

3. Stealing a Parking Spot is Rude AF.

To anyone who thinks cutting into a spot claimed by a blinker is acceptable: Seriously? That’s just jerk behavior. It’s infuriating, and if it happens to me, I might just give your bumper a little nudge with my cart on my way to my car—no harm, no foul, right?

4. Asking if Extra Guests Can Join the Party? Rude AF.

No, your kids can’t come to a grown-ups-only dinner. No, your visiting aunt can’t crash an intimate wedding. No, your dog can’t tag along to a fancy cocktail party. Know the rules, people.

5. Cutting in Line During Traffic? Rude AF.

Hey, Mr. “More Important Than Everyone Else,” I’ve been stuck here forever. If you think you can swoop in at the last moment, think again. That’s not how patience works, buddy.

6. Saying ‘No Wrapped Gifts’ on Invitations is Rude AF.

You want cash instead of thoughtful gifts? Just send me your PayPal link so I can skip the awkwardness altogether while you munch on rubbery appetizers.

7. Disturbing Others? Rude AF.

Whether it’s blaring music at the beach or chatting loudly in a library, if you’re filling the air with annoying noise, I’m definitely muttering about you under my breath. Be considerate and keep it down.

8. Sitting Right in Front of Others at the Movies? Rude AF.

Why do people always choose to sit directly in front of the only two people in an empty theater? Just find your own row and stop blocking my view of the movie I’ve been waiting to see all year!

9. Not Cleaning Up After Your Dog is Rude AF.

I get it—dealing with dog poop is gross. But letting your dog go in someone’s yard and leaving it is even worse. Nobody wants to step in that mess, so bring your baggies or be prepared to scoop that poop with your own hands.

Let’s take a moment to remember those preschool lessons: share, take turns, and be nice. If 5-year-olds can grasp these concepts, so can we. So, next time you feel like being a jerk to a barista or ignoring the check at dinner, just stop. Remember, you catch more flies when you’re nice AF. True story.

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Summary:

This article highlights nine rude behaviors to avoid if you don’t want to come off as inconsiderate. From not tipping or RSVPing to cutting in line and disturbing others, these actions reflect a lack of basic manners. By being more mindful and respectful, we can all contribute to a friendlier society.