Why I Prefer Hand-Me-Downs for My Third Baby Shower

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When my partner and I found out we were expecting our third child, we were taken aback. We thought we were finished expanding our family, but now we’re overjoyed to welcome another little one. After sharing the news with friends and family, the excitement began to build for a baby shower organized by some of my favorite ladies.

But before they dive into planning games and choosing a cute theme, I have one heartfelt request: please, no new items! Seriously, I’m practically begging you.

Having navigated two rounds of babyhood and the whirlwind of toddler life, I feel like I’ve mastered this early parenting gig. I know I won’t need a wipe warmer or a fancy baby bidet (let’s be real, I love cloth diapers, but they won’t be in my mix this time). Co-sleeping is on the agenda, and frankly, the crib will likely turn into a laundry basket because I’m no rookie.

There’s a long list of things I won’t need, like an umbrella stroller or bottle warmers. We’re tight on space as it is, and honestly, the appeal of pristine Pottery Barn nurseries has faded. Who in their right mind buys a shag white carpet for a kid’s room?! I’m all about practicality now.

What I truly crave are your hand-me-downs. I want the cherished onesies, beloved books, and gently used toys that carry stories with them. I’m eager to receive items that you no longer need but can’t bear to donate. It warms my heart to think that my child will enjoy the same items your little one loved. I promise to send you pictures to share in the joy!

I want to hear the tales behind each gift: the Moby wrap that soothed your fussy baby, the hand-knit booties that kept tiny feet warm in the NICU, or the baby blanket worn from countless nights of comforting. Those narratives, infused with your love, are what I want as part of my baby’s journey.

For my kids, I’ve kept only the most treasured items—the ones that tug at my heartstrings. Those beloved toys and blankets will stay in a wooden chest until my children are grown and ready to be parents themselves.

As I prepare for baby number three, I want to surround my little one with the love of my incredible mom friends. We’re all at a point where the days of babyhood are winding down, and I can feel the excitement for the adventures ahead. So, before we leap into the next stage, I want to soak up every moment of this fleeting time.

So, dear friends, please don’t buy new things. Dig through your baby gear storage, sift through those old clothes, and pull out those quirky books and delightful toys. They’ll find a loving home with us, where we will honor the memories they hold. I can’t wait to welcome all those treasures.

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In conclusion, hand-me-downs are more than just used items; they carry love, memories, and stories that will become a part of my baby’s life. Let’s celebrate this journey together!