Do We All Really Have to Say ‘Merry Christmas’?

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As I stand at the checkout, the cashier hands me my groceries with a cheerful, “Thanks a bunch. Merry Christmas!” I return the sentiment with a polite, “Merry Christmas to you, too,” even though I don’t celebrate the holiday myself. It feels courteous, and I genuinely hope they enjoy their festivities. The truth is, I’m not offended when someone wishes me a Merry Christmas; I understand the kind intent behind it.

What does grind my gears is the notion that saying “Happy Holidays” is somehow offensive, and that it symbolizes a “war on Christmas.” This perspective seems incredibly short-sighted to me. Our society is diverse, with people celebrating a variety of traditions, and “Happy Holidays” is a simple acknowledgment of that diversity.

It’s even more tiresome when political figures, like our former president, make it a point to disparage the phrase “Happy Holidays.” During his campaign, he loudly proclaimed that “Merry Christmas” would be the only greeting you’d hear in stores under his administration. He insisted, “You don’t see ‘Merry Christmas’ anymore, right? Because it’s not politically correct.”

Really? Because I still see Christmas trees, wreaths, and hear carols everywhere. Just because some shops opt for “Happy Holidays” and schools refer to winter breaks instead of Christmas breaks doesn’t mean Christmas is in any real danger. The holiday is alive and well, and we all know it — if we’re being honest.

Imagine if a Jewish candidate, like Ben, won the presidency and spent his campaign advocating for “Happy Hanukkah” instead of “Happy Holidays.” It would feel a little awkward, right? So why is it any different when the push comes from the Christian side?

Yes, Christmas is a federal holiday and a big deal for the majority in America, but let’s not forget that about a third of our population doesn’t identify as Christian. Not to mention, there are various religious observances between Thanksgiving and the New Year for people of all faiths, including Bahá’ís, Buddhists, Jews, Hindus, Muslims, Pagans, and many more. This is precisely why we hear “Happy Holidays.” It’s not some covert plot to undermine Christmas; rather, it’s about including everyone’s traditions in our greetings.

Let me clarify: I have no issue with anyone saying “Merry Christmas.” In fact, I enjoy the festive spirit. The real issue arises when people feel the need to demand that everyone say “Merry Christmas,” and then get offended when someone opts for the more inclusive “Happy Holidays.” Isn’t that a bit precious?

I honestly can’t fathom why anyone would be upset by “Happy Holidays” when it’s offered sincerely. Why insist on having your specific holiday recognized? The America I cherish embraces its diverse citizens and their beliefs. I hope we can hold onto this value rather than retreating into a narrow viewpoint because of some political rhetoric.

Wishing everyone a joyful and peaceful holiday season, no matter how you choose to celebrate!

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