Let’s Chill Out—It’s Just Anal Sex!

It’s no secret that women love to share secrets. We chat during Girls’ Night Out, vent in the carpool lines, and swap stories about our husbands’ quirks and our kids’ antics. Oftentimes, we’re more candid with our girlfriends than with our partners. But there’s one subject that remains mostly off-limits, even among our closest pals.

That topic? The one that makes women exchange nervous glances and pray for a swift change of subject? You guessed it—anal sex. When Teen Vogue dared to touch on this sensitive subject last spring, the reaction was nothing short of explosive.

Now, ladies, it’s time to get brave and dive into this conversation. We need to shed some light on the topic of anal sex. Recent statistics from the Centers for Disease Control reveal that 36% of women aged 18-44 have tried it. Yes, that means in a group of 10 PTA moms, around 4 of them have explored this avenue.

If you’re one of those 4, let’s be clear: there’s nothing abnormal about what brings you pleasure with your partner. Enjoying anal play or using toys is completely normal. Here’s to you for being open-minded and in tune with what your body loves!

Now, if you’re part of the 60% who don’t engage in anal sex, that’s perfectly fine too. But for those who are curious, let’s tackle some common questions. Where do you turn for answers? Certainly not your friends; most of us would rather die than discuss lubing up for a little chocolate adventure!

So, what’s a curious woman to do? I’ve done the legwork and gathered answers to the most pressing questions about anal sex. Consider this your cheat sheet to the ins and outs of the experience.

First off, many find anal sex incredibly pleasurable.

The anus and its surrounding areas are rich in nerve endings, leading to sensations that can be quite enjoyable. And yes, let’s be real—using a bathroom can feel satisfying for similar reasons.

Lube is Your Best Friend

Unlike its vaginal counterpart, the anus doesn’t self-lubricate. You’ll need a good quality lubricant to help things go smoothly. Don’t skimp on the lube; it’s essential for a comfortable experience.

Start Small

There’s no need to jump in with a massive toy right away. Begin with a finger or a small-sized object and take your time getting accustomed to the sensations. Remember, the anal area is delicate, so be gentle.

Slow and Steady Wins the Race

Take it nice and slow. Communicate with your partner about the pace that feels comfortable for you. There’s no rush—this is all about mutual enjoyment.

Talk About It

Communication is vital when trying new things in the bedroom. Discuss your feelings and expectations before diving in. This ensures that both parties are on the same page and can enjoy the experience.

Things Happen

Let’s be honest—yes, the anus is home to a bit of poop, but that doesn’t mean you’ll have an accident during anal sex. Your body knows how to handle things, so relax and enjoy the moment.

While anal sex isn’t for everyone, it can be a fun part of a fulfilling sexual experience for many women. We all giggle like schoolgirls when this topic comes up, but there’s no need for shame. It’s time to stop treating anal sex as a taboo and embrace the way we express affection with our partners. After all, as George Michael said, sex is natural, fun, and best enjoyed with someone special.

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Summary

Women often shy away from discussing anal sex, but it’s a common experience for many. Understanding the importance of communication, lubrication, and taking things slow can enhance the experience for those who choose to explore. Let’s break the stigma and embrace the conversation around anal sex as a normal part of intimacy.