When Malia and Sasha Obama first stepped into the White House eight years ago, they were greeted and guided by the Smith sisters—Emily and Sarah. In a delightful gesture, the Smith twins penned a letter to the young girls, then just 7 and 10 years old, brimming with insightful tips for life at 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue. “Slide down the solarium banister” and “Play Sardines on the White House lawn,” were among the fun suggestions that Emily and Sarah shared.
Fast forward to two terms later, as a dramatic presidential transition loomed, the Smith sisters crafted another thoughtful letter to the Obama sisters, this time offering wisdom for their next big adventure: life after the White House. This letter, which you can read in its entirety on TIME, serves as a much-needed reminder that kindness can transcend political divides. It illustrates how compassion knows no party lines.
The letter reminisces about the sisters’ first encounter with Malia and Sasha, noting, “We saw both the excitement and apprehension in your eyes as you took in your new surroundings.” They reflected on the daunting experience of moving into such an iconic home, acknowledging the unique challenges faced by children in such a situation. The poise with which the Obama sisters handled their White House years is truly commendable.
“We have watched you blossom from young girls into remarkable women, all while having each other by your side,” they wrote. Very few siblings can relate to the experience of having a parent in the highest office of the land, and the Smith sisters understand both the joys and the challenges of that life.
Now, as the Obama sisters prepare to join the exclusive club of former First Children—a role they never sought but are about to embrace—the Smith sisters reassured them, “You have so much to look forward to. You’ll be writing your own story, stepping into the world beyond your parents’ shadows, while cherishing the lessons of the past eight years.”
With a sprinkle of humor, they advised Malia and Sasha to “enjoy college, as everyone knows we did.” Their playful banter was followed by sage advice on finding their own identities. “You’ll no longer carry the weight of the world on your shoulders. Explore what you love. Discover who you are. Make mistakes—you have permission!” they encouraged.
Despite the pressures of being First Children, the Smith sisters highlighted the incredible opportunities that come with it. “Take everything you’ve experienced—the people and cultures you’ve encountered—and use it as a springboard for positive change. We believe in you.”
The letter concluded with empathy for the sisters’ journey, acknowledging the intense scrutiny they faced during their time in the spotlight. “You’ve navigated the pressures of the White House with grace. You’ve stood by your parents as they faced harsh critics. Your parents have always prioritized you and provided you with the world; they’ll continue to cheer you on in this new chapter. So will we.”
In summary, the Smith sisters’ letters to Malia and Sasha Obama encapsulate the shared experiences of growing up in the public eye, while also offering heartfelt encouragement as the sisters embark on their next adventure. For more insights into navigating parenthood and home insemination, check out this article or visit Make A Mom for expert advice on self insemination. Additionally, UCSF’s Center is an excellent resource for pregnancy and home insemination.