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Why I Love Being the Go-To House for Hangouts
When my kids were younger, playdates felt like an endurance test. I did my best to embrace the chaos, but let’s be real—I’d often rather have tranquil afternoons filled with reading, sandbox adventures, or trips to the park with just my kiddos. Sure, I’d host occasionally, and there were moments of joy, but after each gathering, I needed a solid recovery period to restore my sanity.
With three little ones running around, they always had each other for entertainment—and boy, could they turn the house upside down in no time! Throw in a few extra kids, and I’d be battling to remember my own name by the end of the day, bracing myself for the inevitable meltdown.
Fast forward to their teen and tween years, and everything has changed. I absolutely love having their friends over! Weekends? School breaks? Yes, please! Maybe I’m reliving my own teenage years vicariously, but honestly, I relish every moment. Our home is always open to their friends, and it’s partly because I feel a twinge of guilt for not hosting more when they were little. Here are a few reasons I adore being the hangout hub:
- Independence Galore
The kids take care of themselves. They entertain each other with minimal supervision—my only job is to keep the fridge stocked with snacks and tell them to help themselves. I don’t mind if they devour everything in sight, and the music blaring throughout the house makes it feel like a mini rave. They’re busy, happy, and calling me “Mama Carter,” which warms my heart. Plus, when I whip up a batch of cookies and they disappear in minutes, I feel like a culinary rockstar. - Friendship Growth
Watching my kids forge strong friendships is incredible. It reminds me of the connections I built during my own teen years—bonds that have lasted a lifetime. It’s vital for them to find their “tribe,” especially during the turbulent teenage years. - Teenage Humor
Let’s be honest: teenagers are hilarious (and yes, a bit moody). They joke around, discuss politics, and banter back and forth with me. They keep me feeling young and hip—though I’m currently banned from saying “lit.” - Staying Involved
As parents, we always want to be there for our kids. Yet, during the teen years, it can feel like they’re drifting away. I remember those feelings myself from when I was a teenager. I want my kids—and their friends—to know they can always come to our home. While I don’t hover, I’m close enough to feel connected. Sure, I might eavesdrop a little, but it’s my house, and I do what I like. Plus, other parents appreciate that I keep an eye on things.
So, while my kids are still under my roof, I’ll keep the door wide open, have something baking in the oven, and embrace the latest tunes blaring in the background. Quiet will come all too soon. I hope that when their friends eventually move on, they’ll come back, still calling me “Mama Carter” and devouring cookies in record time. Because honestly, I’m going to miss this chaos.
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Summary
Having a home where my kids can hang out with their friends has transformed from a source of stress to one of joy. As they grow into their teenage years, I appreciate the bonds they’re forming, the laughter they bring, and the way it keeps me connected to their lives. I cherish these moments and look forward to the memories we’ll create together.