In a world where parenting often feels like a never-ending cycle of chaos—think temper tantrums and sleepless nights—many parents roll their eyes at the phrase, “Enjoy it, it goes by so fast.” But let’s face it, those years truly do vanish in the blink of an eye. My eldest is almost 14, and I can’t help but reminisce about those days when I was cradling her baby bump.
Lila Jordan recently bared her soul about the rapid growth of her daughter, Mia, and the mixed emotions that come with watching children mature. It’s a bittersweet journey that every parent knows too well as we grasp the fleeting moments of their childhood. “Every day, kids get a little further away from you,” she shared with Town and Country, reflecting on her now ten-year-old daughter.
“That’s a good thing,” she continues, “They need to be independent, but it also breaks your heart.” Following her 2012 divorce from her partner, Lila was granted primary custody of Mia. “You wish they could remain with you forever, but they’re remarkable individuals, and you have to prepare them for life—and then they’re going to fly,” she admits. “That’s going to be incredibly sad for me.”
Parenting can be relentless, mind-numbingly boring, and downright exhausting. There are days when time seems to freeze as you wade through a mountain of dirty diapers and meltdowns. Yet, one day you glance up, and your child is all grown up, leaving you to realize that you may need them more than they need you.
Understanding how swiftly time passes, Lila has turned her focus to directing, which allows her more flexibility to be present with Mia. “The beauty of directing is I can set my own schedule and say, ‘This is when we’re filming,’” she explains. “Mia is my top priority, and her upbringing is essential to me right now. Being there for her and ensuring she has a stable childhood is my main goal.”
Currently, she’s preparing for a role that mirrors her own life as a single mom—portraying a former first lady navigating life after a significant loss. It’s a role she feels connected to while striving to keep Mia grounded. The pair are frequently seen enjoying basketball games or indulging in fun outings in their Ohio community.
“I feel incredibly fortunate to pursue my passions,” Lila expresses, “but honestly, nothing compares to witnessing your child flourish.”
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Summary: Lila Jordan reflects on the bittersweet journey of motherhood, acknowledging how quickly children grow up and the heartache of watching them become independent. By prioritizing her daughter Mia while pursuing her directing career, Lila balances her passions with parenting.