Moms, It’s Time to Unleash Your Wild Side! You Deserve That Girls’ Getaway

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Taking a break from my children makes me a more effective parent. It’s true — the time spent sipping cocktails and dancing with my friends, away from the chaos of family life, enhances my parenting skills. After a girls’ trip, I return home feeling incredibly patient and relaxed with my little ones, far more than I did before I left. My tone shifts to a soothing, almost melodic cadence. I feel like Mary Poppins on a chill pill, ready to handle any outrageous requests or demands with calm understanding.

Normally, when my kids ask for something outlandish, I find myself in a lengthy debate, trying to rationalize my reasoning as if I were arguing a case in court — with myself. This often results in confusion and disputes, such as:

• “But you let me wear a short-sleeved shirt when it was 50 degrees last time! Why not today?”
  Response: I made a mistake.
• “How come my friend Mia gets dessert at school and home, but I only got one dessert? That’s not fair!”
  Response: There are people in need out there — and I’m not referring to those trendy moms at the coffee shop. Now, let’s move on.

But after a weekend in the sun, my replies are more like:
“Sweetheart, life isn’t always fair. Now, who wants to sing a song?”

The transformation I experience after these trips is remarkable. Perhaps it’s the much-needed rest after nights of late-night laughter and early morning sleep-ins, or maybe it’s the gentle hangover from the last night of freedom. But I believe the change is profound. Initially, we dubbed our annual escapes with playful names like “Moms Gone Wild” or “The Great Escape.” Now, we’ve embraced the reality of our adventures, treating them as essential rituals, akin to the holidays.

I have seen friends whose partners have tried to guilt them into staying home, reminding them of their parental duties with passive-aggressive messages. They fear that their husbands won’t understand the importance of these trips. I always argued that it’s not a bad thing for less-involved partners to experience a day in the life of parenting.

Exhibit A: My family’s reaction when I return. The sheer joy on their faces mirrors the thrill of a joy ride in a prized car, especially my husband’s expression.

So, if these trips benefit everyone — moms, kids, and even dads — why do so many mothers feel guilty about taking a few days for themselves? I used to think the saying “happy wife, happy life” was somewhat outdated, yet research has shown that when moms come back refreshed, they appreciate their families even more. Happy moms lead to happy husbands, which leads to happier marriages and, ultimately, a happier life for everyone. It’s true, by the transitive property, a happy mom does equal a happy life for all. Now that’s a movement I can support.

However, here’s the catch: you can’t expect a grand welcome when you return home. If your kids are too engrossed in their fun with dad — whether it’s bowling, laser tag, or a wild adventure at an amusement center — and barely notice your return, accept it. It’s tough, but it confirms that you made the right choice in taking that break.

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In summary, taking time away from your kids can rejuvenate your spirit and improve your parenting. A girls’ trip is not just a luxury; it’s a vital necessity for a healthy family dynamic. So pack your bags and embrace the joy of a getaway!