How to Embrace Your Bikini Line Without Compromising Your Aesthetic

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I remember my first waxing experience vividly. A little miscommunication with the aesthetician led me to leave with what a friend jokingly referred to as “full baby.” It left me feeling torn: while the hairless sensation offered a fresh feeling, the discomfort of constantly feeling like I was wearing a diaper was hard to shake off. Sure, I didn’t have to deal with rogue hairs peeking out from my swimwear, but looking in the mirror revealed a stark contrast—my body felt unrecognizable without that familiar tuft. It was as if a beloved landmark had vanished overnight, leaving the neighborhood confused.

Over time, I’ve experimented with different grooming styles. I’ve generally opted for subtle trimming but have also bravely ventured into Brazilian territory. I’ve even contorted myself in ways I never thought possible just to achieve that elusive smoothness. Ultimately, my stance is this: women should feel free to do whatever makes them comfortable—everyone else’s opinions, whether they come from friends, partners, or glossy magazines, should hold no weight.

As summer approaches, the familiar barrage of unsolicited advice on hair removal resurfaces. You’ll hear everything from the benefits of sugaring over waxing to dire warnings about the dangers of shaving. But here’s the thing: I haven’t spent a dime on hair removal this year—not out of a political stance, but simply because I’m feeling a bit lazy. I’ve spent days at the beach without my thick, dark Eastern European hair causing any issues.

With a few straightforward techniques, you can also reclaim your time, money, and peace of mind from the hair removal hustle, freeing yourself to enjoy what truly matters: sunbathing on your rooftop, slathered in baby oil, Zinka, and Sun-In.

Tip 1: Invest in a Good Pair of Clippers

I swear by my Lady Remington. It’s a lavender beaut, but essentially, it’s just a robust beard clipper. Set it to the closest trim, and in about five minutes, you’ll have a neatly managed bikini line that stays within the edges of your swimwear.

Tip 2: Shave Sparingly—Only Your Legs

With my pale skin and dark hair, I find my inner thighs can get a bit unruly. I keep my lower legs smooth year-round and in the summer, I whip out a razor for my thighs. It’s crucial, though, to only shave up to the point where I wouldn’t have thigh fat if I were edited for a magazine cover. Going any higher can lead to irritation, which is a hard pass for me. I use a Gillette Atra for a smoother experience, far better than the disposables I once butchered myself with in middle school.

Tip 3: Choose Retro-Cut Swimwear

I prefer bathing suit bottoms with a classic cut—they’re not only more comfortable but also strategically designed to hide any stray hair in the inner thigh area. While I don’t wear skirts, I think they’re adorable and even more effective.

Tip 4: Elegant Cover-Ups Are Your Best Friend

Do you have a chic scarf you can tie around your hips at the pool? Maybe a stylish sarong? Or those cute terry cloth rompers? There are so many options to elegantly cover up while enjoying the sun. Lands’ End even offers swim capris with built-in skirts! And let’s be honest, if vintage pin-up styles are trendy, why not go for a full-coverage Victorian bathing suit? It’s a far more budget-friendly option than shelling out for painful hair removal that lasts only a few weeks.

If these tips still sound like too much effort, consider embracing your natural look. Honestly, I think it’s perfectly fine, and I’m puzzled as to why we feel pressured to hide our hair. Interestingly, even those who frequent salons are joining the trend of a fuller bush this year.

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In summary, embracing your bikini line without the stress of constant grooming is entirely possible. With a few creative tricks and a mindset shift, you can enjoy summer in style, all while making choices that are right for you.