As I prepared to welcome my little ones into the world, I can’t help but think about all the things I wish I had been reminded of:
- Savor Your Sleep: Take advantage of those cozy hours of slumber. Nap like it’s your job, revel in luxurious sheets, and spend a whole weekend lounging in bed. Soon enough, you’ll be up all night soothing a sick child, which is a far cry from blissful rest.
- Love Your Body: Embrace your figure as it is now. It might not feel perfect, but it will change even more post-baby. Treat yourself to a pedicure and show off those toes—your feet might even grow!
- Drive a Fun Car: Enjoy the freedom of a sporty convertible or a funky Beetle. Blast your favorite tunes while you can. Before long, you’ll be cruising in a minivan, singing along to children’s music even when you’re on your own.
- Travel with Your Partner: Take spontaneous trips with your spouse. Once kids are in the picture, finding childcare for a weekend getaway becomes a Herculean task, so relish those carefree adventures while you can.
- Dine Out at Fancy Restaurants: Treat yourself to gourmet meals and savor every bite. The time will come when you’ll find yourself rushing through meals at chain restaurants, possibly while juggling leftover grilled cheese. If you do manage to get to a nice place after kids, prepare for babysitting costs that rival your dining expenses.
- Embrace Impromptu Adventures: Go on last-minute trips with just the essentials. Spontaneity will soon be replaced by meticulous planning, so seize those moments of adventure while you can.
- Take a Day for Yourself: Call in sick and use that time to recharge. Moms rarely get a break, and your day off will pale in comparison to the care you’ll provide when your little ones come down with something.
- Invest in Yourself: Spend on high-quality items that you’ll cherish. Once you have children, the price of luxury will feel steep when you start calculating it against diaper costs. Buy those designer sunglasses now and wear them later.
- Enjoy Privacy: Close the bathroom door when you go—this small luxury will feel like a distant memory once you’re knee-deep in parenting.
- Appreciate Your Parents: Take a moment to roll your eyes or question their choices. But once you have your own kids, you’ll find a renewed respect for their wisdom and realize they knew more than you ever acknowledged.
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In summary, before the arrival of your little one, cherish your personal time, indulge in life’s pleasures, and appreciate the quiet moments. Parenthood will certainly change your world—so enjoy these fleeting moments of freedom!