I don’t regret working. While many moms might feel differently, I stand by my choice. When I leave each morning, I’m not sorry that you don’t shed tears. Instead, you look forward to the fun adventures ahead with your Nana, Gigi, and Pops, who are some of your best friends and help take care of you while I’m away. So many kids miss out on that special bond you have with your grandparents.
I’m proud that my job allows you to spend quality time with your wonderful dad. It means you have the chance to connect with other caregivers, too. The more people you have in your life who care for you, the richer your experiences will be. You see both me and your dad sharing chores, changing diapers, and managing our home together. That teamwork sets a great example for you.
I appreciate that although I might not be there as often, the moments we share are filled with love and attention. Research shows that my working can benefit you both: my daughter, you’re more likely to pursue higher education and earn a solid income, and my son, you’ll likely be involved in raising your own children. Plus, you’re getting a great education in a wonderful school district and have a big backyard to play in. Isn’t that special?
And let’s not forget, I enjoy my career! A fulfilled mom contributes to a happy family. But sometimes I do worry. I wonder if you feel envious of friends whose moms stay home, or if you’ll be sad when I miss important events like a soccer game or a band concert. I hope you won’t ever find yourself in therapy, pinpointing my work as the reason behind any struggles you face later.
Despite these worries, I am grateful. I’m thankful that you’re growing up seeing your parents break away from traditional gender roles, which will help you embrace whatever path you choose in life. I’m also lucky to have family nearby to lend a helping hand, which isn’t the case for everyone. Most importantly, when I tuck you in after a long day, your big, sloppy kisses and “I love you, Mommy” remind me that our love is unwavering, no matter what.
It’s all about balance, and while I might work, it doesn’t diminish the bond we share. If you’d like to learn more about navigating family life during such transitions, check out this excellent resource for pregnancy and home insemination.
In summary, my choice to work is not something I apologize for; it enriches our lives in countless ways, and I hope you’ll grow to appreciate that as well.